Glen Hope, PA USA
Okay James...you do raise a couple of very good points there. It is rather embarrasing to display your love for all to see and then for it to fall through....been there done that...but in turn, these people are like family to me, they have shared my joy as well as my pain. You are also correct in the fact that everyone knows their own heart better than someone else. Trust plays a key role in any type of a relationship...although I do not trust easily, I trust wholeheartedly until someone gives me reason to do otherwise. I guess it all depends on how much you trust someone whether any type of relationship can survive...long distance or otherwise. Each person is different, what one wants is not always what another does, you will find that anywhere, not just here. What do I want? Honesty, respect, companionship, trust, someone who wants and needs me as much as I want and need him , someone who can live without me, but chooses not to.