Randygene...Another to go along with the green/orange thing. It is tough, and I think there can be very fine lines between friendship and love. It is reassuring to know that one can be happy with any of the titles, when you are a true friend.
"The finest qualities of our nature, like the bloom on fruits, can be preserved only by the most delicate handling. Yet, we do not treat ourselves nor another thus tenderly." ~Henry David Thoreau