Not fair at all, Tulip. "Emotional vs. Physical" has always seemed to have presented quite the battle. It takes a taste of both from opposite sides, the "give and take" thing, but it does seem that one side is always a little more tolerant to the taking than the giving. Sigh. You have provided quite the thought provoking read.
"Heaven is under our feet as well as over our heads." ~Henry David Thoreau