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Liam decided to leave me tonight

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the_loner_23
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0 posted 10-25-2003 12:16 AM       View Profile for the_loner_23   Email the_loner_23   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for the_loner_23

  It ended on a bad note. We were having a discussion(if you know what I mean) and my Dad came in and I had to sign off in the middle of it. Then I get back online to see all these e-mails from him saying "So I guess you hate me. I'll disappear forever then." I e-mailed him back what happened and I think he is ignoring me. And in his journal he said he was tired of me. So as far as I know right now he is out of my life forever.

Cold hands means a warm heart

Severn
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1 posted 10-25-2003 02:04 AM       View Profile for Severn   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Severn

You know Julie - it's really easy to panic. Why don't you wait just a bit longer and then see what happens? Hm?

Give it just a bit of time - and maybe a bit of space...

Hugs

K
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2 posted 10-25-2003 04:34 AM       View Profile for serenity blaze   Email serenity blaze   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for serenity blaze

I happen to know Severn gives excellent advice.

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Julie, I happen to know that Serenity knows excellent advice when she sees it! --and she's been known to dish some of it herself!

Lovin' hugs,
Linda
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4 posted 10-25-2003 11:49 AM       View Profile for Poet deVine   Email Poet deVine   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Poet deVine

Why didn't you just say to Liam "hey my dad walked in, I've got to go and we'll talk later"?

I say give it some time...
the_loner_23
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5 posted 10-25-2003 12:43 PM       View Profile for the_loner_23   Email the_loner_23   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for the_loner_23

He signed back on and we talked almost 2 hours. I had to talk sense to the boy. Finally it sunk in and he kept saying he was sorry.

Cold hands means a warm heart

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Great!  There ya go!  He loves ya!
Severn
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There you go then...

But you know what? This business with your Dad - it's been going on for a long long time now hasn't it? Have you thought about talking sense to him and explaining that you're an adult now? That you're allowed a relationship?

Nothing will change, and you won't feel free to live your life, until you take some steps to make change happen Julie..

hugs

K
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8 posted 10-25-2003 10:22 PM       View Profile for garysgirl   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit garysgirl's Home Page   View IP for garysgirl

Severn, that is very good advice. Julie is a lot younger than I am and I still  have trouble standing up to my Dad. I love him very much, but he has always been very domineering to my Mother, my brother and me. If it was left up to him I would not be having a relationship with Gary. I have tried many, many times these last five years to talk to my Dad about mine and Gary's relationship, but he will not listen. All he wants to do is to argue with me.

The difference between me and Julie is that I don't live in the same house with my parents.

I am very, very thankful that my Gary has so much patience with me. The  only  reason that he and I are not married is because of my Dad. Because he had open heart surgery, I'm afraid he's going to have more trouble with his heart.

I didn't mean to get so long-winded, but I do understand where you are coming from, Julie. My Dad has always said that no matter how old I am, if I live in his house I will do what he says. Julie, I don't know if your Dad is this way or not, but if he is I can understand how you feel.

[This message has been edited by garysgirl (10-25-2003 10:23 PM).]

the_loner_23
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9 posted 10-25-2003 11:30 PM       View Profile for the_loner_23   Email the_loner_23   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for the_loner_23

yeah if I told Dad about my feelings for Liam he would make sure I never talked to him again. That is why when I get a job I am buying my own computer and paying for my own internet service. That way maybe I will have a little privacy.

Cold hands means a warm heart

 
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