British Columbia, Canada
quote: Thank you for admitting your actions were wrong, and at least owning up to it.
indeed I will be accountable.
quote:Well ... I didn't like it and sent out that message loud and clear. As a consenting adult, you are free to behave however you wish with any consenting adult of your choice. However, you took it into the teen area of this site, and it was later substantiated. Unfortunately, this to me was not appropriate behavior from any adult posting at this site, and I wanted my feelings known about it.
"though i am married, i am still a flirt, that's just me.
like it or not."
I am not that naive that I don't know millions of people flirt back and forth on the Internet for some very strange reason, and that is their business, but you openly admitted to doing your flirting in our teen area, that is what I reacted to. The fact you are an adult you claim, age 22, and the playing field you chose was with teens from 13-19, not yet consenting adults, was my objection. It would be wrong by any standard of the law, if when a teen were to go along with an advance by an adult, that the initiating adult did not stop that interaction in its tracks.
who will judge me?
You are your own judge, and jury I am afraid.
I want to explain something so there is no mistake that I accused you, and did not judge you. I was going to send you an email but this serves as a good example to other adults even thinking of doing the same thing you did, for if I find out I will indeed do this again. I accused you of something I felt wrong, quite openly not because I am self-righteous, but I am sure all for sticking up for people who can't defend themselves and in this case, it was a minor.
I didn't judge you, I don't even know you, nor do I judge anyone for that matter, lest they judge me. You don’t know me either, so I could be lying right, and be that self-righteous person you think even? I will tell you this though, when I don't like something someone does to the point it bothers me, what kind of a person would I be to let it slide and say nothing. I can't imagine a world without change, change is good, healthy, and beneficial to all concerned in the change.
Thank you for your admission for having done wrong in this particular case, and I hope you have learned from it, now perhaps a change will be good? Starting with your staying out of the Teen Forum. You came here April, 2001 and were 19 then if you are 22 now, but sadly we all grow older. Thank you for understanding.