In an upside-down garden
My thing I guess is a tad different. Things he did before we got "together". when we got together, I told him not to do them, told him if he did them, not to look to me for forgiveness because I never would speak to or see him again, and he hasn't gone against that yet.
"Wie ein Quadrat in einem Kreis, eck' ich immer wieder an obwohl ich doch schon lange weiß, daß ich niemals ändern kann." ~Wizo