LOl, Karen I can relate, I have about a dozen personalities only three of them are nice.
People have common traits, common experiences, but how they view the world will be completely different.
Say, you could take two identical twins, separate them and create an environment that is identical in every way possible, then in thirty years compare the results and they would be different. Our environment may shape us and or attitudes, our social status will also have an effect on us, but we are born with certain characteristics that are unique to each of us.
Don't drag the orchestra into this thing
Rattle those sticks, rattle those sticks
The sound is beautiful, its perfect!
The birthday party