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Alexia
since 2001-06-07
Posts 164Sweet And Sassy 
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Why are all men so confusing? I mean one minute it may seem like they like you alot and want you or whatever, but then the next second they seem like " I don't want to talk to you" type of mood.I hate that. Ok, There's this guy I really like but he lives in Texas and when I graduate I'm moving to Texas to be with him. Then sometimes it seems like he doesn't even want to talk to me. Like for example, He use to take Ecstasy all the time and I sent him a whole bunch of information about it and how it causes you to loose part of your brain after one ussage. I mean he worries me, cause he does so much but I love him.Then he was like, Don't worry about me. Blah Blah Blah! What is a girl suppose to think when a guy says that to her? It made me feel really bad, so I was like "Well, Sorry" Being sarcastic you know? And he all changes the subject and was like awww baby I love you ... Ew my gawd. It makes me so mad. He'll just change the subject like that all the time. When we are about to start and arguement or something, he won't say anything about what I said and just up and change the subject. I HATE THAT! Then when I email him, he just reads it and doesn't reply back. What am I, Not Important? Then I only talk to him like, what ... Once a week or maybe Twice if i'm lucky. I mean, I'm starting a Job today and he works all day then goes to college at night. I'm 17 and he's 21. I know, I know ... But if you love someone age doesn't matter? Please give me some advice Alexia ¤Smile, because you never know who'z in love with it¤ |
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Poet deVine
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-05-26
Posts 22612Hurricane Alley |
Alexia! Run, don't walk as FAR AWAY from this guy as possible. Do not move just to be near him. He's trouble with a capital T. (my opinion based on what you've told me) You are a wonderful, kind, good, caring person. A guy should be running after you not the other way around. The way I look at it, if a guy is interested in you, HE'LL maintain contact, nurture the relationship. And if he avoids you, doesn't reply to your emails and general ignores you? Dump him! |
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Alexia
since 2001-06-07
Posts 164Sweet And Sassy |
Ok I guess I should have explained that more in detail. I will when i have more time. Because the bells gonna ring. Alexia |
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Christopher
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Member Rara Avis
since 1999-08-02
Posts 8296Purgatorial Incarceration |
you're 17. enjoy it. don't move in with someone. live with yourself. have fun. |
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rosepetals25
since 2000-05-31
Posts 3076PA |
How long have you known him? I can't tell you to not move, because I am moving to Texas to be with my Dave (Napalms constantly confused, he posts here) However, I have known him for about 3 years, and we talk about every night. We have talked about the future, what we have to do once I get down there. We don't run away from problems, we discuss them. Not to mention I am 27. I know, I would roll my eyes to at that line when I was 17. It does make a difference though. You have to think, try to look beyond your love for him. Once you move down there you are there. Is this how he is going to always act? Is he going to continue the drug use and simply brush aside your feelings? Is he going to simply run from every problem that comes up? I understand you love him. I know love can be blind, but PLEASE, for your own sake, try to think clearly on this. This is a big step. If you decide to still go down, make sure you keep an open mind as to what might happen. It might seem like doing that may mean you doubt him.. but you are only looking out for your own saftey both emotionally and physically. I wish you luck. Tara [This message has been edited by rosepetals25 (04-16-2002 03:58 PM).] |
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doreen peri Member Elite
since 1999-05-25
Posts 3812Virginia |
beats me! that's why i love 'em so much |
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Alexia
since 2001-06-07
Posts 164Sweet And Sassy |
Ok, here's the deal .. I'm not moving down there right now, It'll be in about 2 years, Because i'm still in school and everything then i'm going to college to get my career started. Then move to Texas to be with him, until then he'll probably be here, so he can be with me till i'm done. Then we'll move to texas. He stopped using Ecstasy because of me, He stopped FOR ME! Because I asked him to and he knew I didn't agree with all that crap. He'd do anything for me. But i mean just sometimes, I dunno ... He isn't done partying it up yet ... he doesn't want to be tied down, I completely understand that too, i'm the exact same way, because i'm only 17. I don't want to rush into things before i'm ready. We've talked about all this. I really do love him, and i'm not blind about it. Because I watched my sister get hurt bad, and I know some of tha signs and everything ... but i guess every guy is different. I've known him for about a year or 2. I'm not real sure. And the reason he doesn't get on alot is because He gets up to go to work at like 8 to 6pm, then goes to college at 7pm to 9:30pm. And in between that he has to work on his car that he's trying to get done, do school work and everything else plus look for an apartment. So he's really busy, thats why I hardly get to talk to him but he calls every chance he gets! Which is mostly about once a week or so .. maybe more than that. Then we both go out with our friends on tha weekends so were not home then. but I do love him and hopefully you all understand kind of what i'm saying. But I mean, I just don't know about tha relationship because he lives all the way in Texas and i'm in Ohio .. Can you image the phone bills ... well not really (phone cards) lol .. I just hate it because I can't be with him or see him alot. It's hard. Thanx for listening. Alexia ¤Smile, because you never know who'z in love with it¤ |
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