At the edge and a doorway,TX
I have my list, but before that I have two things to say. Alicat, you need help love. The first answer was funny though. The second answer #3- ICorinthians, chapter13, vss4-8a. Remember that is a hard to find quality. I agree with you there.
#1- Honesty- without that you have no relationship. Everything has to be truthful.
#2- Intelligence- a dumb guy is not a guy. He becomes plant life while you are talking to him if he has no brains.
#3- Sense of humor- my father had it, my grandfather had it, and now my husband has it. It is what keeps things together when it feels like both of you are going to fall apart.
I won't lie though, as Mistikman said "it is hard to believe ppl when they don't put physical beauty as one of there things.."
For one.. These are the top three things that ppl are looking for. Beauty would be on the list, but not as high as honesty. Beauty can't buy happiness, though it sure helps out. I think that I'm beautiful, but beauty is in the eye if the beholder. So what I think is beauty may register a high ugh on your scale. That is the reason why I leave that off.
Though I have to say that I'm glad to see that honesty, intelligence, and a sense of humor seem to lead the list!!
Though I also have to agree with Satiate. You have to have ambition.
Oh, Ali, I hope that you find that living breathing person that you desire.. lol
[This message has been edited by Ladycat (edited 03-05-2000).]