Member Rara Avis
Cerenity, if I'm gathering what you've stated here correctly, and your in an abusive relationship, Hon you need to get out of it! Or anyone that's in it.
I was in that situation for too many years!
They don't quit doing it, it just gets worse each time it happens. And if alcohol is being used, that only adds to it.
I'm so serious when I say, as long as you keep yourself in that situation, and you put up with it, it WON'T stop! If they can control you and you stay, why should they stop??
It's hard to walk out that door, but once you stand up for yourself, and realize you deserve better than that, you'll never let it happen again. So please, know that you're worth more than that. God didn't put anyone here to live in abuse!!! Your life is precious, and you deserve to live it happy.