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chollagrl4
Member

since 1999-08-10

Posts 65
brick

0 posted 1999-12-03 06:55 PM

Why do I put up with you,
when you're never here?
Why do I put up with you,
why do I have a fear?
A fear of being alone,
without you,
my lifes not complete.
but right now im so sad I cant even eat.
Why do you put up with me,
why do you love me at all?
Why do you lie all the time,
and then you never call?
Why do you say,
"I miss you babe",
and act like not seeing me isnt fair?
When every time we dont see each other,
I know you really dont care.
Why do I put up with you,
and all the pain you put me through?
all I can say about it all is,
I cant help loving you.

Maitay
Member

since 1999-07-16

Posts 158
Sisters,OR,USA

1 posted 1999-12-03 07:15 PM

Not to bash on guys but to me it seems like we fall in love deeper then they do. Also they are more prone to not caring as much as we do when we do things with them. Awesome poem, and if you ask me this guy is one that you will move past one day. I know it's hard to let go of someone like him, but someday he'll do somehting that will really hurt you, and it wont seem so hard no more. best of luck

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~The price of finding love is to eventually lose it. When I wish on a falling star, I wish not for material goods but to show kindness to others and be content with what the world may offer me~

~Maitay Mirabel Litton~

~*Queen of the Faes*~
New Member

since 1999-12-02

Posts 4

2 posted 1999-12-03 09:34 PM

This kind of thing can be so painful. But Maitay is right...he's probably the kind who'll move on. You'll gather the strength to move on. Exellent work, and I too wish you the best of luck.

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....A shimmer of wings....a rustle of amber leaves.....voices singing within the the trickle of the streams....eyes glowing within the midnights....magic floating upon the breeze....Welcome To The Land of The Faes...

Star Fairy 2
Member

since 1999-09-06

Posts 260
cerritos, california, usa

3 posted 1999-12-04 04:22 PM

i luv the lines:
"I miss you babe",
and act like not seeing me isnt fair?
When every time we dont see each other,
I know you really dont care.

beautifully expressed...
oh and on a social note (as opposed to a poetic note) this guy aint worth it at all... you've got too many virtues to be that he obviously doesnt appreciate so try to find someone who can

and to those who say there are more fish in the sea... why do you want a dum fish... cuz here u are throwin out all this good bait without any intention of cookin the sucka and the fish aint bitin it.. why? cuz he's a dum fish... so how come u want that fish? wouldnt u rather have a bigger better, SMARTER shark?

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Don't Fall.. Rise in Love
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kari
Member

since 1999-10-03

Posts 104
Hyde Park, Ut, USA

4 posted 1999-12-05 01:05 AM

I am COMPLETELY in this situation. It sucks big-time! Your poem is awesome! I dare say that this guy is someone really special because I know that my guy who is much like this one is very special to me. All I can say is try to focus on positive things. E-mail me this whole big mess of a story about this kid so I know I'm not alone!

Beri
Member

since 1999-11-25

Posts 149

5 posted 1999-12-05 08:20 PM

This was absolutely beautiful! You express yourself very well, and I know I can definitely relate! Great job!

Kevin

Senior Member

since 1999-11-02

Posts 729
Torrington, Ct, Usa

6 posted 1999-12-05 08:40 PM

to stick up for guys everywhere have you ever read anything ive wrote?
if my love be not as deep, than i pity you when your heart is broken, for my pain is the worst i can imagine

Angel
Senior Member

since 1999-07-02

Posts 551
Pennsylvania

7 posted 1999-12-05 09:04 PM

I loved this poem, it was really written from the heart. And on a personal note, I have been in this situation too many times to count, but believe me it will get better. I agree with everyone else, you are too good to be wasting your time on this guy. He really isn't worth it. It may take time but you will find someone who loves you for you, much better than this creep. Good Luck

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~Susie~

Saxoness

Senior Member

since 1999-07-18

Posts 1102
Texas

8 posted 1999-12-05 09:56 PM

It's a hard truth......I know. You think you can never stop loving them no matter what they do.....until they do something so hurtful you can't get past it. I've been there.

"Glory remains unaware of my neglected dwelling where alone
I sing my tearful song which has charms only for me."

-Charles Brugnot

Rachel_A
Member

since 1999-11-30

Posts 70
North Webster, IN USA

9 posted 1999-12-05 10:14 PM

I can really relate to this poem, but I can also tell you that you will get over this, and learn from it, and realize that you deserve so much better!!

pop_tart14
Junior Member

since 1999-11-22

Posts 12
North Dakota, USA

10 posted 1999-12-06 06:28 PM

i like this poem a lot. it expresses probably every girl in the world. guys just need time to mature and grow up and realize everything. they define love differently than girls and it takes a while to adjust. what you're going through sucks really bad but don't worry, you'll get through it.

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