Well now, I usually disdain from entering into such a blatant attack and fray, but as it is directed at two of my close friends, I will indeed respond.
Yes, support is hard to find, especially among those holding preconceived notions based solely on one side of an issue and reinforced by ties of friendship that blind one to the pain and suffering of others.
One should realize that there are more than two sides of every issue and that desire alone cannot make an issue black and white.
Ultimately what "dove" and "star" choose to do is their decision as it is their decision of whether or not to make it a public issue. You have made that decision impossible.
I fail to see how your verse supports anything or anyone but your own agenda, but that is just my biased opinion as I am supportive of both those involved.
Now and forever, my heart hears ~one voice~.