Member Rara Avis
if it's gone, it obviously wasn't the ONE . . . remember it in memory, but don't keep it alive in memory. Give yourself a break.
I had a girlfriend in Jr. High and High School - I remember everything about here and would gladly retrace my steps could I go back - But!
She's yesterday. I live in Today!
She's a pleasant thought - not a dream, or anyone I compare others to.