Member Rara Avis
Don't shop for, hunt, or seek love at all! Have fun, enjoy yourself, don't be over zealous with your feelings, emotions - don't try to create love! Let it happen. If it's there it'll announce itself - then and only then can you determine if its real or short-term.
Let love find you - - - not the other way around. And for goodness sakes - Don't rush it just for the sake of "wanting Love"! That's a course to disaster.
Once you've found it - nourish it, feed it,
give it reason to love you too. But don't overwhelm it with slobber, leave it always slightly wanting, but confident in it's grasp on you.