Maybe by this time you've discovered your answer to the oldest question in the world, or so I perceive it to be anyway.
When one asks this question and feels like they now know the mystery of the irrepressible force meeting the immovable object, take a fleeting moment to consider it as a theological question. Because after all else is exhausted, that's where you'll find the solution.
Once you grasp the answer, you'll then also know what an 'oh-duh' moment is.
She told me "play one for your supper Danny and maybe you'll get breakfast".