How to Tell an Obsesser to Back Off

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RenaissanceRomanceRunsRed
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since 2007-06-11

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0 posted 2007-08-27 08:10 AM

How to Tell an Obsesser to Back Off

I’m drowning in your admiration
It’s killing all and making life harder
At least of myself
And I can’t keep my head above the water

I feel so complex
And I wish to be that which you hate
But I’m wondering now
If that’s a possibility or if it’s too late

Hating to hurt anyone
But almost ready to kill all your feeling
I detest this idiot you’ve turn to be
They just suck- the cards I’m dealing

Leave me alone
To nurse my now opened wounds
The ones I had controlled
You’ve dealt me horrors, not boons

I’m sick of being sick
And tired of being tired
I’m going to do something drastic
All memory has been firered

(wait guys, how do i really get rid of him, i would forever be thankful to the person who told me how to rid my self of one daniel who obsesses over me)

-Kate

"I thought I'd just mention in passing . . . I always wanted a Sparkly of my very own." -Jeremy The Crow

hunnie_girl

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since 2006-06-18

Posts 2567
Canada

1 posted 2007-08-27 07:36 PM

hmm best way to rid your self of someone(from experience) eat a garlic sandwich everyday before you start school it works trust me:P well ok JK but if you really want to get rid of him try telling him how you feel nicely and if it doesn't work be more firm about it... now if that doesn't work than you can always hide away in the girls bathroom until he finally gets the hint(lets hope he doesn't go in there:P) Liked this poem Kate. Best of luck to you to get rid of him

Krysti

jayjara
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since 2007-05-02

Posts 90
Florida

2 posted 2007-08-27 08:16 PM

Haha. perhaps renaissance romance runs this daniel as well. I think you have the answer in your poem. Do something drastic. [This is coming from a guy]. Be assertive and tell em what you think at which point he will do one of two things...back off, or if he's really obsessive, then he'll just find your rejection as an incentive 2 continue obsessing which puts you back in the same hole. Then you call the cops

haha, g'luck. [seriously, be assertive]

-J

buttercupbaby
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since 2006-05-03

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outside in the rain

3 posted 2007-08-29 09:19 PM

well i got a person to pretend to be my mother an continually when he called they said they would get a restraining order or go above the cops [i didnt know what was above the cops, but heck, it worked!]

best of lucky, fantastic poem!

~missy
afraid of my feelings and falling too deep, but i had to let go of the pain let it rain down on me

RenaissanceRomanceRunsRed
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since 2007-06-11

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4 posted 2007-08-30 05:42 PM

all fixed, some strern words and he slunck back into his earlier state of miserable being.

-Red

"I thought I'd just mention in passing . . . I always wanted a Sparkly of my very own." -Jeremy The Crow

buttercupbaby
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outside in the rain

5 posted 2007-08-30 06:29 PM

eeck.. sounds.. interesting!~ >.< im glad its all fixed though. :]

RenaissanceRomanceRunsRed
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6 posted 2007-08-31 04:40 PM

your so funny buttercup

"I thought I'd just mention in passing . . . I always wanted a Sparkly of my very own." -Jeremy The Crow

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