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I NEED ADVICE - not a poem/kind of a story.
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I NEED ADVICE - not a poem/kind of a story. |
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Maitay Member
since 1999-07-16
Posts 158Sisters,OR,USA |
I have deleted all that I wrote. Thank all for the comments I got. But for now I dont want this on the web. Smile all =$ [This message has been edited by Maitay (edited 08-03-99).] |
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Maitay Member
since 1999-07-16
Posts 158Sisters,OR,USA |
In my writing I didn't mean that I didnt want others girls thoughts on it. PLEASE, anybody post... ------------------ ~depression is not a sickness of the body or mind, but of the heart. When the heart feels alone and afraid~ Maitay Mirabel Litton |
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Angel Senior Member
since 1999-07-02
Posts 551Pennsylvania |
I completely understand how you feel, as I was in the posistion more than once. I felt that I loved the person and yet every time I told him how I felt he ran away or went with another girl and totally blew me off. I chased after him for an entire summer and finally realized he wasn't worth it if he used me like that. I am not doubting the love you have for that person, as I also know how it feels when someone tells you, you are too young to be in love. This is a really tough situation and the only advice I can give you is sit down by yourself and think about how much this guy really means to you. Maybe he is just not ready for a serious relationship or has another reason for treating you this. Once you figure out what you want from the relationship try to have a serious conversation with him (I know it could be really hard with some guys.) You never know, maybe he will tell you something he hasn't yet. Tell him how you feel and ask him if he wants a serious relationship with you or not. If not, let him go, you are a great person and I am positive that you will find someone that loves you back very soon  . You should never let a guy use you for your body, I learned that. I hope I helped and if I didn't I am sorry. I hope I didn't seem like I was telling you what to do, I am just trying to help. Hope to talk to you again.Angel |
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ILoveJ Junior Member
since 1999-07-18
Posts 16Eugene, Or, US |
I'm sorry that happened to you. When I read your story it sounded all too familiar. I have gone through the same kind of thing with my friend Mike. I didn't know what to do because I had mixed feelings but I decided that I would just be his friend until he decided to change. Your friend knows that you are his doormat so show him that you aren't and then he will see that he has a major problem with using girls to his advantage. Try to be a better person by not letting him use you. |
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Maitay Member
since 1999-07-16
Posts 158Sisters,OR,USA |
Both of you have given me something to really think about and you were both soooo..... right. I do need to really do what both of you said. I do care about him, but as vain as it is, I need to take care of myself also. Than both of you so mch, it's nice to know that I am not the only one this has happened to..... Everyone have a good day........ ------------------ ~depression is not a sickness of the body or mind, but of the heart. When the heart feels alone and afraid~ Maitay Mirabel Litton |
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