I have my fingers crossed for you, and I wish you good luck, the both of you. Mammography give a lot of false positives. It is the best early screening they have right now, but it's far from terrific. A lot of women with fibroids and fibrocystic breast tissue, which is very common, have dense breast tissue and frequently have false positives of the mammograms. The needle biopsy will be helpful and there is no way that anybody can go through the thing calmly. The idea is to allow yourself to be emotional enough with each other so that you can use the experience to make the bond between the two of you stronger and more resonant, so that you can vibrate with each other better.
What use is this sort of stuff if you can't use it to help you refine yourselves? The rest of it comes and goes, but when you can use it, the two of you, then you turn it as best you can to a refining process.
You might also do some research into the Susan B. Koman Breast Cancer people. They're affiliated with the John Wayne Cancer folks out here in L.A. and they've done some good research into Blue Node technology for use in Breast Cancer surgery, which can really limit the extent to which it's necessary, should things even get that far. And there's a Book by Susan Love, who's a surgeon, on breast health and breast cancer and related subjects that's very good. I don't know how up to date it is these days, but it's worth checking out. I think it's Dr. Susan Love's Breast Book or some such.
I hope everything turns out to be absolutely fine. I will pray for both of you. Good luck.
Sincerely, Bob Kaven