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Tears-of-Sanity
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0 posted 10-23-2007 02:45 AM       View Profile for Tears-of-Sanity   Email Tears-of-Sanity   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Tears-of-Sanity

I don't know if that is the appropriate place to be talking about this, but I don't know where else to go.  This is not big of a deal you might say, but to me it was even more than that.

The issue is simply put that I have this feeling that I am no longer my best friend's best friend.  We have been together for more than 3 yars, and we've always been together through all.  Today I heard from one of my classmates that she is getting married next Friday, and she's never told me about it.  She's been engaged for 4 months now and I never knew about it.  and I see her everyday acting normal as if she doesn't want me to know.  I just don't know why.  I don't think I have done anything wrong to her that would make her mad at me and I don't know if she was ever to tell me.

I can't blame her, because I know she must have a reason.  I can't show her that I am happy for her either.  I am kinda lost in thoughts and don't know what to do.  Can anyone help me do the right thing?

Thank you!

Tears of Sanity~

voice2bheard
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1 posted 10-23-2007 10:53 AM       View Profile for voice2bheard   Email voice2bheard   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit voice2bheard's Home Page   View IP for voice2bheard

Omg I'm so sorry thats so sad!! I can't believe that would happen I hope you feel better and believe me I know what its like to lose a friend, I've been friends withthis guy for 10 years, now we don't talk anymore
moondogz
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2 posted 11-01-2007 10:51 PM       View Profile for moondogz   Email moondogz   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for moondogz

that's a tough one...i feel for you.
sometimes the world's a nasty place...here's something to cheer you up...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxH39QlRuhg

don't know why this link didn't work, but it's
you tube devo whip it...have fun..
Tears-of-Sanity
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3 posted 11-04-2007 04:54 AM       View Profile for Tears-of-Sanity   Email Tears-of-Sanity   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Tears-of-Sanity

Thank you for being concerned.  I thank you moondogz for the youtube link,  it was really nice and I cheered up for real =)

I guess it was just the shock of hearing the news and all, but I am much better now.  We both act as if nothing is wrong and I just plan to go on with life until this settles up.  I don't think it will take long... so I am cool

again, thank you for being concerned...

L.W.~

Tears of Sanity~

moondogz
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4 posted 11-04-2007 09:33 PM       View Profile for moondogz   Email moondogz   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for moondogz

you're welcome, isn't that what friends are for?
Tears-of-Sanity
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5 posted 11-05-2007 06:32 AM       View Profile for Tears-of-Sanity   Email Tears-of-Sanity   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Tears-of-Sanity

Thank you very much

You are really a true friend and you are always there.  That is so appreciated. ^^!

Tears of Sanity~

rebelangelv
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6 posted 11-06-2007 12:20 AM       View Profile for rebelangelv   Email rebelangelv   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for rebelangelv

hey ive been thru that before. the best thing to do is just talk to her straight up and ask her wuts up. that way youll know exactly whats going on. it may not heal your friendship in fact it might make it worse but if there is a healing to be had this is the first step to take for a long road of healing. i wish you good luck cuz i know its hard.
Abbeon
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7 posted 11-14-2007 06:12 PM       View Profile for Abbeon   Email Abbeon   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Abbeon

I shed tears of knowledge for tears of sanity. I know what that feels like and I also know how hard it is and if you wish to hear it this is my suggestion. Try talking to your friend, ask her what’s going on in her world and tell her how much her friendship means. And if that doesn’t work try to explain how you feel about the situation.

I hope that this helps and I know that it may seem tough.


Abbeon

The world behind these thoughtful eyes, caution may seem crazy.

Tears-of-Sanity
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8 posted 11-17-2007 11:17 PM       View Profile for Tears-of-Sanity   Email Tears-of-Sanity   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Tears-of-Sanity

Rebelangelv:
Thank you for caring and I would like to try talking to her.  I know that it requires a lot of courage and patience, and I am not sure if I can afford that on my part, but I will do my best.  I tried to give her hints that I know all about it and I asked her about many related things, but she just seem to ignore what I want to get to.  That makes it harder for me because I know that I am not the best solver of my own problems.. I have always been able to solve those of others though.  Maybe I am too emotional to get through this without hurting her!  Anyway, thank you very much

Abbeon:
I am sure that everything is going to be ok soon   I am not the type of person to keep sulking in the past.  I know that life is too short to be standing by.  We have to move on sooner or later, so why not make it sooner...  I have a lot to worry about, and this thing is not even a part of the problems.  I don't really like to intrude in other people's affairs if they don't want me to know about them.  The fact that we were great friends is what hurts though.  I think that maybe she has a good reason behind it, and I am looking forward to that honest tallk that will make her tell me all about it.

Tears of Sanity~

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