I suppose it isn't very thoughtful to post my problems when they really aren't that bad (I get really stressed and freak out sometimes) I know other people have things much worse and I'm obviouly not such a great person for not being thankful for what I have right now.(I will not post any future drama)
I think it's healthy to post and ask for help, there are times when we all need to speak, but there are also times we need to listen...all of us...no matter how old we get...
When a problem arises, it seems so God Awful Bad at the time, (for all of us) but when we discuss it, and listen to the input of others, somehow, it doesn't seem as serious as first percepted...you see...that is what this forum is for...expressing feelings, and asking what others think....
Asking questions doesn't make us look stupid, or is a sign of weakness, but more so, a plea for help to understand a situation that we are so closely and personally involved with at the time...
So, don't put yourself down or sell yourself short...
asking us for help, doesn't always mean we have the right answers either...but remember, we love you, care about you and are simply trying to help the best way we know how, and we older ones, well believe it or not, our experiences have to account for something? Right?
Love ya to, and thanks