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Kimberly ann
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0 posted 08-03-2006 10:21 PM       View Profile for Kimberly ann   Email Kimberly ann   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Kimberly ann


How do u cope with the loss of your best friend? i have so many memories of laughing and him being here for me. And now we are polite strangers, just what i didn't want to happen. So how do you handle with the thought of u just lost your best friend that u could always turn to? i always use to go to him for everything. And the worst thing is he walked away with no explanation! How do u cope with this?
The Shadow in Blue
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1 posted 08-04-2006 08:27 PM       View Profile for The Shadow in Blue   Email The Shadow in Blue   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit The Shadow in Blue's Home Page   View IP for The Shadow in Blue

The question here is, was did he think of you as his best friend? It is hard to lose someone close to you with no explanation, but somewhere inside of him something has changed. People tend to keep people out of the loop when they are avoiding an issue or something happened to them. Maybe rumors or gossip were spread...I don't really know your circumstances,but the only advice I can give you is to try to talk him-have an actual conversation, before falling back on polite small talk. Good Luck Kimberly.
sandgrain
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Some people only come into our lives for a season, whether a long or short one.  You are young and vibrant, so if you can turn your concentration to making new friends, learning or going somewhere new (a good place)that friendship will be like childhood, a sweet memory.  Meanwhile, the new areas will bring new joys.  Volunteer at a hospital, join a new club, start taking different kinds of pictures or any new challenge.  Your writing helps, as you express your feelings.  A problem shared is half solved.  Don't dwell on figuring out an answer, there may not even be one.

God bless you.

   Rae
I just read Grinch's "Thanks for the Memories" in open. You may feel better after reading it.
Kimberly ann
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3 posted 08-07-2006 10:30 PM       View Profile for Kimberly ann   Email Kimberly ann   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Kimberly ann

-shadow in blue, we had been best friends for about 2 years and i have tried to talk to him he just refuses. thanks for the luck!
-sandgrain so true thank and i did go read that and it makes a lot a sense. and thanks for the advice!!!

Kimberly Ann
 
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