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ska babe
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0 posted 02-22-2006 02:46 PM       View Profile for ska babe   Email ska babe   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for ska babe


right now i dont now what to think say or do. i cant really say whats its all about buti can say if u tell someone something really importent and then they get mad at u or about it!!!!im so confused about what to do an what to say. god i need alot of help!!!!!

"I am the one who has to die when it's my time to die, so I'm gonna live life the way I wanna"- Jimi Hendrix

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1 posted 02-22-2006 03:09 PM       View Profile for Mysteria   Email Mysteria   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Mysteria

Well...the main thing is that if you told the truth and they got hurt or mad, then this is not about you, it is about them.  Let it be their "stuff" and it will pass.  We are only able to control how we feel not anyone else unfortunately.  Any friend that is forgiving is indeed a good friend.  If they don't realize you said it in love, then you will get your answer to your own questions in time and move on.  I have been there and done that, and as they say, "wore that t-shirt."  I am sure what I have said doesn't make it hurt any less, but that is how we find out our real friends in life from the transients.  
sandgrain
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2 posted 02-22-2006 08:02 PM       View Profile for sandgrain   Email sandgrain   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for sandgrain

Amen to Sharon's advice! I had to tell my children things they didn't want to hear.  There were times when I told my kids I could tolarate them hating me now as long as it kept them safe.

If your conscience is clear, feel secure in it knowing God knows your intention.

    Rae
LeeJ
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3 posted 02-23-2006 07:01 AM       View Profile for LeeJ   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for LeeJ

I believe honesty can only prove a great reward...even though someone was upset with you, think about the guilt, and the pain a lie would cause someone. Its not always easy to tell the truth, but no matter how much it hurts to do so, you must.  Your highly respected in my book and things always have a way of working themselves out, with patience and allowance.  Allow time to groom you, and learn...it's a great life to do so.

Hugs to you and my best.
Lee J.
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4 posted 02-23-2006 04:39 PM       View Profile for Silent Prisoner   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Silent Prisoner

First of all you deserve congradulations for telling that person the truth. That must have taken alot of courage since it was taken so badly by the other person. I think that if you give it time the hurt won't nessicarily go away completely but things will get better. It sounds to me that you were hurt by that persons reaction to what you had to tell them but just maybe they were a little hurt by the message itself.  
  
I hope that things get better for you. And that it all works out in the end, cause nothing good ever leaves us.  

Silent

"It's not the letting go that hurts, it's the holding on."

desert-spike
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5 posted 02-25-2006 06:07 AM       View Profile for desert-spike   Email desert-spike   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for desert-spike

Agreed, agreed. Honesty is always the best policy.

That said, if the person you took into your confidence can't handle something important-or handles it immaturely-said person, in the long run, islike not worth your time.
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