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ska babe Member
since 2005-11-08
Posts 58nowwhere, IN |
i hurt someone to night. i didn't hit them but i know that they will proubly be hit to night and its cuz of me. i looked in there eyes they looked at me with sadness and they were scared. and the sad thing is that this isn't the first time it's before happen i don't know what to do. im so confused these days i mean i might sound like i am just pitting myself but i am not trying to come off like that. some times i wish well i don't know what i wish. and thats sad! and you know it seems lately i feel as if i only bring pain or if i don't bring it i feel it and i am so tryed of it i really am. "I am the one who has to die when it's my time to die, so I'm gonna live life the way I wanna"- Jimi Hendrix |
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Christioned Member
since 2004-01-15
Posts 93Huddling in the dark |
Megan, it's fine, okay? I promise you that everything will be alright. I know that it feels you are always to blame, but like I've said things will happen in life that you won't be able to control. This is one. YOu may not be able to change it but you can just be around to help. "See my wrists; |
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jody5 Senior Member
since 2005-12-21
Posts 876California, U.S.A. |
It's easy for us to blame ourselves for the things that happen to other people, but they have to take responsibility for their actions. My best friend died and I blamed myself over it because I didn't call her. No one knows why things happen but there are reasons for everything. Don't blame yourself it will just make you feel bad. |
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ska babe Member
since 2005-11-08
Posts 58nowwhere, IN |
i get what you are saying but you know that in a way if you think about it, it really would be my fault. like one time myfriend use to take me to my house and every where else. but this winter she got in a wreak with her car. she hit ice and went off the road. shes fine but if it wasnt because of me she wouldnt have gone down that road and wouldnt have gotten in the wreak. so i get what you are saying everything happens for a reson but you also have to think of the things like would they be there if it wasnt for you? "I am the one who has to die when it's my time to die, so I'm gonna live life the way I wanna"- Jimi Hendrix |
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Member Rara Avis
since 1999-05-19
Posts 8669Michigan, US |
quote: Guess that makes her mom and dad ultimately responsible for everything that happens to her? Forever? Sorry, but you give yourself way too much power. People make their own decisions in life. You don't get to take credit for the good ones they make, and you can't assume responsibility for the bad ones. Even God recognizes the need for free will. |
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