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0 posted 09-27-2004 04:41 PM       View Profile for *Alli4000*   Email *Alli4000*   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for *Alli4000*

Ok...please! I need advice on this sometime before tomorrow.

Ok, here's the problem...my friend Robert and i were talking on the bus on the way home.  He was all depressed, so I asked him what was wrong.  He said that in one of his classes during the day, a girl that he used to like came up to him and said that she liked him and wanted to know if he wanted to be her boyfriend.  Robert turned her down, because although he still has like alittle feelings for her, he just doesn't like her the same way. (hard to explain )
He said that he turned her down, because your first boyfriend/girlfriend is suppost to be someone special and you will remember them for the rest of your life.
Problem: He's having second thoughts about turning her down.

My bus stop came, and I didn't get the chance to finish our conversation.  When I see him tomorrow, I know we're gonna begin to talk about it, and i want to have something to tell him, some advice.

I guess, what I'm trying to ask, is what you would do if you were in his situation?  If this has happened to you, which path did you take? Was this the right one?
Any thoughts on the subject would be appeciated...I'll be seeing him tomorrow around 8, but wont be able to use the computer after 6 in the morning.  So if you have a reply to the subject, please post it now or sometime before 6 tomorrow morning.

Thank you sooo much!

~Alli~

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1 posted 09-27-2004 05:22 PM       View Profile for SEA   Email SEA   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for SEA

I would have to say that if he likes this girl, "that way" he should go out with her. If he isn't sure, he should wait, hang out with her, see if he diggs her. Then make up his mind. If it is really important to him that his first gf be someone special, and he doesn't think she is, then he should go with what he already told her. Follow your guts, is always the way to go. It is someone you will remember (or at least should be) forever.
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2 posted 10-01-2004 12:00 AM       View Profile for kissa~rachelle   Email kissa~rachelle   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for kissa~rachelle

hmm..tuff one. My advice, would be to go with your first gut instinct, which was no. If later on, he thinks he likes her a lot more, or something then yeah, okay, but for now, i think he should stick with his first instinct.

But thats just me, and im not sure how good my advice is, considering i have no dating life at all!! Mainly cuz right now i think i shouldnt, because of my feelings towards men in general...~lol~ ATleast right now!

Kay, i hope this helps...

Karissa

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I find i cant really rely on myself.
~~~Linkin Park~~~

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