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0 posted 2004-08-12 03:32 PM

How do i tell my boyfriend i'm jealous of his friendship with one of his female friends?

i know nothing is going on with them, they hardly see eachother for starters and it is mainly texts and emails but i know she has very strong feelings and i feel jealous

What do i do?

Thanks in advance for any advice

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kissa~rachelle
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1 posted 2004-08-12 05:47 PM

hmm.. tough one. I'm not really sure if you should say anything or not, it jsut might make her want him more, if she knows you are jealous of them...if that makes any sense at all...and he might feel pressured to pick between you two...and that may not be a good thing depending on the situation..like how long they have been freinds, and their history and all that.

But all in all, it is your choice.

Good Luck...

Karissa

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2 posted 2004-08-12 06:20 PM

Thank you.

At one point they were very close, they have known eachother for over 2 years so slightly longer than i have known him but they were never an item.

i don't know what too do because sheis beginning to pick holes in the relationship (mine and his)so its beginning to get me down

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LeeJ
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since 2003-06-19

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3 posted 2004-08-13 08:21 AM

I believe the best thing would be is to pull back and watch with eyes open. Sounds to me like she's playing him, if she's picking your relationship apart...not fair....but if you say something, well, simply said, you might want to know now if he's going to buy into this, cuz if he does...then your better off knowing now? Right? You wouldn't want to invest years of emotions, trust and faith in someone who cannot give that to you. If he's tempted that easily, then he'll do it later, or....he's done it before? The balls really in his court, and theres nothing you could do, or should do...you want someone who is mature enough to return your love?
Just my thoughts

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