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How do i cope?

lone_rider
Junior Member

since 2004-01-20

Posts 19

0 posted 2004-07-12 12:58 PM

One of my bestfriends, my Crush, Is going away..Not for to long but he is always there for me. He understands if ive got a problem and he listens where as everyone else i find it hard to open up to. I dont know how to cope while he is gone. Most of the time i cant be happy unless his here with me or talking to him on the net,And for the time his away im going to be home alone and i dont know how i'll cope.Im already pushing my friends away because im so upset about it and i dont mean to.I dont why im like this.and i dont know what to do

Michelle_loves_Mike

Senior Member

since 2003-12-20

Posts 1189
Pennsylvania

1 posted 2004-07-12 08:21 AM

Just look forward to their return,,,,and talk on the phone when you can. Since Ive moved, I miss my best friend terribly,,,we've been friends forever,,,he knows my thoughts before I say them, always has a hug and smile to cheer me up....I know what you mean......
Michelle

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Fee
Member

since 2000-08-07

Posts 381
Melbourne, Australia

2 posted 2006-01-18 05:04 AM

You need to remember that you are the only one that truely is in charge of your own happiness. It is great to have someone so close and so special, but you need to be strong enough to stand alone, In saying that, if your friendship is as perfect as I read it to be, and this person is your strength, distance should not take that strength away from you, yes you will miss that person dearly, but close your eyes and feel their closeness in your heart. I know this does not help ease the pain, but it is some advise that I learnt the hard way from.

Time will not change what you share, look forward to the times you will have when they get back.

hugs, Fee

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