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lone_rider
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0 posted 2004-05-23 02:53 AM



Last Wednesday my brothers girlfriend and me we're talking, She told me that my brother was going to go to his friends house to smoke weed..I asked my brother and he said that it wasnt true,And then he asked his girfriend about it and she said that i was lying..and now my brother doesnt trust anything i say he belived her over his own sister!!! And i would swear over anything that i wasnt lying she keeps putting thoughts into my head and now im scared ive lost the trust or my brother...and he wont talk 2 me anymore i dont know what 2 do!

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Michelle_loves_Mike
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1 posted 2004-05-23 10:09 AM


Dude, sticky wickette indeed,
1. It's true, and hes freaked by being confronted
2. It's a lie, and shes spreading such things to alienate him form others
3. You can hope that, either way, it registers in his mind and he gains good from it
4.There isn't a whole lot you can do, alerting your parents with info that turns out to be false,,,,isn't a good idea,
5.,,,but, if he's going down that path, you can't ignore it....
Try checking him out, via friends, where he hangs, if you notice any real mood swings, etc (look online for the signs you should look for), and once you have evidence of his innocence, or guilt, go from there,,,good luck

Michelle

I wish all could find the true happiness I have found,,in the eyes of Mike

sweet_cute_palestinian04
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2 posted 2004-05-23 12:35 PM


omg,,,this is horrible,,,well then she is not a good person after all, he should know the truth  espcially because he  choose the wrong person,,try your best sis ,,and you will successed .,,i promise you..

love and respect

I will cover you with my blood,not only because
i love you but because your are the one that turned my blood a color....

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3 posted 2004-05-23 05:41 PM


All you can do is sit and wait for a while. There's no use alarming your parents over something that might not even be true. I'm not sure how your relationship with your brother was before this, but is it possible for you to sit down and talk to him about the situation? Worst case scenario he'll be mad at you for a couple of months, but once he grows up a little bit and deals with it, he'll be okay about it. He's your brother; he's not going to stop loving or trusting you, even if he seems to have stopped. More than likely he's ashamed about getting caught by you (if he DOES smoke weed); if he doesn't smoke weed, then he'll realise that you're not out to break up him and his girlfriend and will confront HER about it, and demand to know the truth. *hugs* hang in there
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