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Guys really really SUCK!!!

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kissa~rachelle
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0 posted 03-25-2004 08:16 PM       View Profile for kissa~rachelle   Email kissa~rachelle   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for kissa~rachelle

I dont get guys at all. One minute, your kool, friends and stuff, then the next, they treat you like you have some kind of disease or something. I dont get them at all. Today, i was hangin out with my friend Darren, and we were kool, all chillin and watchin this Slipknot DVD, and then J.T and Nick show up, and he is TOTALLY different towards me. I guess i am probably over- reacting, but i just, it just made me feel really sad, and when i had to leave i said bye, and he usually gives me a hug, actually all three of them usually do, and he was just like yea, okay. I know it probably sounds really lame.... i dont know. Maybe it was just because i have been grounded for so long and we just arent as close as we used to be, or maybe he was jsut wanting to go skate so bad, he didnt really notice, but... I dont know, i jsut needed to talk about it i guess. It is really lame, i know. oh well. If you want to rply thats kool, and if you dont, thats kool too.

I want a relationship i can finally sink my teeth into.~ Alexander Sterling

Kielo
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1 posted 03-25-2004 11:46 PM       View Profile for Kielo   Email Kielo   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Kielo

Guys interact differently with guys than they do with girls. In order to not seem like a wuss to other guys, he has to act like he would around them. As a girl, you get treated differently when you're alone with a guy - however, when the guys are hanging out, you aren't one, and they'll all treat you differently. It's the way they work. So I suppose the best I can offer you is, "It's normal, you aren't diseased, and they all still like you. Don't worry about it. "

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2 posted 03-27-2004 04:53 PM       View Profile for passing shadows   Email passing shadows   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for passing shadows

I agree!
darkness_witch
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3 posted 03-30-2004 11:24 PM       View Profile for darkness_witch   Email darkness_witch   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for darkness_witch

i disagree
i think you are just being a little OTT and being sexist.

i dont think u realise how much we put guys trhough as well. is we all just stop stressing about ourselves and notice the little things we do, you will realise how much we put other people through as well.

ever had a really bad day and ignored someone? or maybe not did your usual "goodbye" to someone? if you havent then your obviously not thinking hard enough.

so stop worrying bout your own life and start thinking about other people.

sexism needs to be stopped, same with stereotyping.

darkness

i need somebody and always this sick strange darkness comes creeping on so haunting every time

WhtDove
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4 posted 03-31-2004 10:14 AM       View Profile for WhtDove   Email WhtDove   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit WhtDove's Home Page   View IP for WhtDove

I think women tend to over think things. I think males have an "ego" to uphold. So take it with a grain of salt hon. I'm sure it wasn't meant to hurt you.

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kissa~rachelle
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5 posted 04-01-2004 04:13 PM       View Profile for kissa~rachelle   Email kissa~rachelle   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for kissa~rachelle

Thanks for the comments. But Darkness, i have to dissagree about the whole sexist thing. Yea, i can MAYBE see where you get the OTT thing, but i was NOT being sexist. AND if you read it carefully:

"Maybe it was just because i have been grounded for so long and we just arent as close as we used to be, or maybe he was jsut wanting to go skate so bad, he didnt really notice"

I DID think about the fact that maybe he didnt mean to or just didnt really think about it. I also DO realise how much we put guys through too, and i also agree that sexism needs to be stopped along with stereotyping, but i WAS NOT doing either one. Next time you want to start telling poeple they are sexist and OTT and all of that, make sure that they are.

  Kissa

I want a relationship i can finally sink my teeth into.~ Alexander Sterling

Ron
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6 posted 04-01-2004 06:57 PM       View Profile for Ron   Email Ron   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit Ron's Home Page   View IP for Ron

Kissa, generalities aimed at gender are, by definition, sexist. The only way to avoid that would be to change your topic to "People really, really suck."
Juju
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7 posted 04-20-2004 05:27 PM       View Profile for Juju   Email Juju   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit Juju's Home Page   View IP for Juju

Well,

It is hard being around the sex you perfere, I am a girl and it is extreemly stressfull bieng around guys I like. Ron She was speaking girl. by "guys" she meant him. its a unconcous thing girls do, we have our own language. You may hear guys stink from me, but I mean that specific guy that ticked me off. I understand with her point of view. Believe me this thing happens to every one so cool down and if a guy treats you bad let him know it. I a,m sure he will feal bad. If not ignore him.


lots of love Juju
Allysa
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8 posted 05-04-2004 12:23 PM       View Profile for Allysa   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Allysa

I guess I never learned how to speak girl.  Or maybe, when I'm mad at a particular person, I say "him, her, he, she", instead of "guys, girls".  I don't know.  Guys don't really like it all that much when you make generalizations about them.  They don't all suck, and you don't know them all personally because there are billions of them.  Girls also don't like it when guys make generalizations about them, like saying that when we are a little ticked off about something, we automatically have pms.  That's my two cents.  He may have just been having a bad day, and tomorrow, you won't think that he sucks.
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9 posted 05-04-2004 04:35 PM       View Profile for Jeffrey Carter   Email Jeffrey Carter   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Jeffrey Carter

Personally, I think there is someone out there who thinks (or has thought) that each and every one of us "sucks" at some point in our lives. hehehe
Aenimal
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10 posted 05-05-2004 12:54 AM       View Profile for Aenimal   Email Aenimal   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Aenimal

the truth of the matter is 99% of humans suck male or female..

then again don't women out number men in most population figures? that would mean out of that 99%...ah nevermind

grins
kissa~rachelle
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11 posted 05-07-2004 07:43 PM       View Profile for kissa~rachelle   Email kissa~rachelle   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for kissa~rachelle

~Lol~ If i had known that people were going to make such a big deal over what i put as the name of my topic, i would have definetely changed it. It was stupid, and i should have been more specific, but when i wrote it i was REALLY ticked off, and confused, and i put that down without raely thinking. If i offended anyone by that hwole generalization thing... i'm sorry, it really wasnt meant like that. Honest. I am not sexist...at all.

I want a relationship i can finally sink my teeth into.~ Alexander Sterling

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12 posted 05-19-2004 07:18 PM       View Profile for *Alli4000*   Email *Alli4000*   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for *Alli4000*

OMG!!! I agree with Rachelle!!! Guys suck!!!!!!!!

~Alli~
Toerag
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13 posted 05-21-2004 08:06 AM       View Profile for Toerag   Email Toerag   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Toerag

I heard about some really weird thing happening at a local hospital just a few days ago, this nurse friend of mine, (she's one of those feminist types), she told me there was the oddest baby born there the other day..it had a brain and a penis?......
sweet_cute_palestinian04
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14 posted 05-21-2004 11:08 PM       View Profile for sweet_cute_palestinian04   Email sweet_cute_palestinian04   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for sweet_cute_palestinian04

hey,,,sis..well um all i got to say is sometimes we all go crazy about things ,,sometimes we're so depressed and people have to try and make it feel better,,you know sis,,,its not only guyz that have the same issue its guyz and ladies ,,i dont think we are all perfect ,no one is perfect in life ,,,and you have to accpet that ..there are days they we dont feel like talking or just chilling ,giving hugs or anything and you have to deal with that ..im  not trying to be rude but im just syaing what i feel is right..well keep it up love and respect ....and be your best..

    peace

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i love you but because your are the one that turned my blood a color....

Tequilia_Sunrise
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15 posted 07-05-2004 01:45 AM       View Profile for Tequilia_Sunrise   Email Tequilia_Sunrise   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Tequilia_Sunrise

lol *walks over to the corner* i agree with Aenimal all people suck not just males.......  lol

Aenimal
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16 posted 07-05-2004 04:52 AM       View Profile for Aenimal   Email Aenimal   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Aenimal

amen
sim0riah
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17 posted 09-10-2004 12:35 PM       View Profile for sim0riah   Email sim0riah   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for sim0riah

Ok short and to the point
friends will come and friends will go in your life. Thats a given
When you truly find someone you will find that they put their ego's aside or actually your ego's will become one..The problem with people is just that "EGO". The thing is, its not natural to give it up you must learn it somehow

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18 posted 10-09-2004 12:26 AM       View Profile for silhouetted   Email silhouetted   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for silhouetted

to wat darkness said...

soph... kissa wasnt being OTT. she was just worried about her own feelings. it wudnt seem to be as big as she think it is cuz we werent there, we werent feeling her feelings. so its hard to discriminate cuz we arent the ones feeling how she is.

and the guy wasnt having an off day, cuz she said he was fine b4 until guys came.

kissa - but maybe... this guy is just being a guy and when he enjoys ur company in private, its like expressing feelings and mayb it mite make him less of a 'man' in the other dudes eyes.

dnt wry about it chica!

LOR

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