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kissa~rachelle
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0 posted 02-07-2004 11:24 PM       View Profile for kissa~rachelle   Email kissa~rachelle   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for kissa~rachelle


I think i am in love with this guy. Everytime i see him, i get this feeling... I dunno, like i am about to go on stage and preform in front of millions of poeple or something. Everytime he touches me or hugs me my heart starts racing. Its coplicated though. I know for a fact that he likes or maybe used to like my best friend, and there is no way i can even compare to her at all. she is skinny, and funny, and shes perfect, except she can be sort of a drama queen.~lol Anyways, and me and his cousin went out, and his other cousin is like my brother. to top all that off, his cuzin J.T, thinks i like him. (the like mY brother one) which i dont. I dont know, and i am grounded so i dont see them very often. But when i do i totally spaz. Well, i dont spaz out, but all that stuff about my heart racing happens. And the other day, they came by, and i had just gotten out of the shower, and didnt have any makeup on and my hair was acary lookin, and anyways, I told them hey and stuff, then they had to go, and nick went to give me a hug, and i didnt realyisze it, and i  gave jt a hug first, and so i think that looked really bad.
but i didt think nick was gonna give me a hug first, because usually he makes me give ihim a hug, and never moves to give me a hug, and i guess i just.. I dont know. I am really scared to tell him how i feel, cuz i dont want him to like flip on me, and be all weird aroud me, if he doesnt like me back, and if he does like me, and we go out i am afraid that he is going to screw me over
(cheat on me) with my friend Lyndsey, (the one he likes or liked)then everything would definetly be screwed up, and i just have no clue what to do. Any comments you have i would really appreciate!!!
(good or bad)
~kissa~
nakdthoughts
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1 posted 02-08-2004 06:57 AM       View Profile for nakdthoughts   Email nakdthoughts   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for nakdthoughts

I am too old to give dating  advice etc..except to say I would never date my best friends boyfriend or ex boyfriend...even if she were to later become my ex girlfriend. Why complicate your life...

And since you are the one having the feelings, just keep them in check. You will have heart racing more than once in your life.(The fact you are even worried about him cheating is sort of "funny" since he is in fact someone elses  boyfriend or in like with them)
Stay grounded for a while     that's meant to have a double meaning...

M

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2 posted 02-08-2004 12:53 PM       View Profile for colbalt   Email colbalt   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for colbalt

It all does sound pretty confusing to me too! Sounds like some honesty is needed to sort this all out. lol. I think you need to let your cousin know first of all, that you consider him a brother. A comment like 'you mean loads to me JT, your just like a big brother' mmmm...or something like that. The worst thing is being led on and thinking that someone feels something when they don't. As for the other chap that you are crazy about, well...is he seeing your friend? Has he actually ever been out with her before? - If no, then you're not doing anything wrong liking him. Does your friend like him though? If she is crazy about him things could get really messy. Could you not talk to her about it and how she feels about him? Also, why are you worried that he will cheat on you- has he done that before?

regards
colbalt
kissa~rachelle
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3 posted 02-08-2004 10:09 PM       View Profile for kissa~rachelle   Email kissa~rachelle   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for kissa~rachelle

J.T isnt MY cuzin, he is Nicks, (the guy i like.) And, I dont have feelings for J.T, and i have cleared all of that up. And my best friend, Lyndsey, is going out with J.T. and Nick used to or maybe even still has feelings for her, and Lyndsey sorta likes nick too, abut she also likes J.T and is going out with him. She has never gone out with Nick, and she knows that i like nick, and even though i know she doesnt like it, she still supports me or whatever. What i am confused about is wether or not i shoud tell him how i feel or not, and yeah. I would never date any of Lyndseys exes or anything like that, they have never gone out, and wil probably never go out, because nick is loyal to his cuzin J.T. I am not so much scared about him, its more Lyndsey, because she has been known to cheat on guys, and has before on J.T with this guy i used to like, Darren, when she knew i liked him, and I dont know, I guess if he cheated on me i would just have to deal huh. I guess any guy would be capable of doing that. I am just scared of relationships i guess. All i Have to figure out i guess is if i am ready for a relationship, and if i should tell him or not.
~kissa~

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nakdthoughts
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4 posted 02-09-2004 11:46 AM       View Profile for nakdthoughts   Email nakdthoughts   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for nakdthoughts

just laughing...

for no other reason than this is too confusing and actually appears worse the more  you try to explain it

why should you have to tell him anything....
either he asks you out or he doesn't...
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5 posted 02-09-2004 01:26 PM       View Profile for Allysa   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Allysa

What most teenagers don't understand is that things aren't nearly as complicated as they think they are.  Relationships included.  Chances are that you think you really really love this one, but were you not to date him, yeah, you might be upset, but you would get over it and you wouldn't care about it in five years.

Just my thoughts..
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6 posted 02-09-2004 01:29 PM       View Profile for KristieSue   Email KristieSue   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit KristieSue's Home Page   View IP for KristieSue

<--------------personally glad she isn't a teenager anymore

rofl
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7 posted 02-10-2004 07:52 AM       View Profile for Allysa   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Allysa

(That, by the way, was coming from a sixteen year old girl.)

<-------sixteen.  

There are billions of people on this planet, if this one doesn't work out, some  one else will come along.. *shrugs*  who knows?  maybe they'll be better..

*looks at watch*  How many more minutes until I'm not a teenager?
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8 posted 02-28-2004 10:34 PM       View Profile for silhouetted   Email silhouetted   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for silhouetted

What ever you do DO NOT GO FOR HIM

He obviously isnt worth it if he cant simply come up to you and ask you out

SIMPLE THING TO DO

LOR

Call no man happy till he is dead.

kissa~rachelle
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9 posted 04-08-2004 11:39 PM       View Profile for kissa~rachelle   Email kissa~rachelle   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for kissa~rachelle

Thanx Silhouetted , i just now read that. I dunno. It's all changed a lot since i wrote this though, so yea. I still like Nick a lot, but not as much cuz he's a.... welll i am not gonna wastde my time to put it, cuz it will just get edited out, but he's ust  a really really realy REALLY big DONKEY to me sometimes! !LOL! DONKEY... I love it!!
(hehe) sorry i just think thats funny. Thanx for the comments!!
~kissa

I want a relationship i can finally sink my teeth into.~ Alexander Sterling

 
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