blues & greys
O.K. here goes...
This is m situation currently. I have this wonderful girlfriend, but before we started dating she told me she had a girlfriend as well, which is one of my good friends...I knew this off the bat, so it was not a surprise, but that is not the problem...we all moved in with each other, which is great, but me and my gf are getting really, really close, and to make matters worse my gf's gf bf (I know thatís a mouthful) dumped her so now my gf's gf is jealous of us and she has told us that...I mean there has not been any fights or anything bad happened, yet, but I don't know how to approach this situation especially because I am bad at sharing, emotionally...but here is the catch my gf is not intimate with her gf, so therefore I don't know what makes them that, and I have asked her this before, but I hate bringing it up because it will eventually cause strain on our relationship...and I think I am falling in love with my gf...and it eats me up inside that she has a gf..So I don't know how to approach this subject, because I don't want to live in a house full of fighting, I mean it is great now, no problems what so ever, except the one I explained...so any thoughts, suggestion, words of encouragement, maybe even a damn your (edited profanity), something...some people have told me that this is a dream come true a blessing in disguise...but I donít look at it like I have two girls, more like I'm sharing emotion and it is hard when her gf is upset and needs her, and all I want to do is spend time with her. I never tell her anything about how I feel because I feel it is not right because I knew before, but we are starting to get more and more serious...so I donít know...hollaÖ
[This message has been edited by Poet deVine (07-01-2003 08:05 PM).]