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Dance
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0 posted 2003-03-30 12:01 PM



I think I'm falling for my ex-boyfriend all over again.  I'm trying very hard to not think about him in that way, but I can't help where my dreams take me.  We are still good friends but can't seem to be as connected as we were before we went out.
Have any of you ever been in a spot like this?
Plz help.
Thank you and lots of love,
~*~DaNcE~*~



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1 posted 2003-03-30 11:31 AM


I broke up with my last boyfriend in September and I've just gotten over him. It's hard, and every circumstance is different. For me, it would have been a stupid thing to think of going back to mine. Your situation might be different though. Think about why you broke up in the first place. If it was just over differences and neither of you did anything wrong to the other (cheating, esc), then maybe you should talk to him and think about giving it another try.

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2 posted 2003-03-30 06:56 PM


I finally made the decision to end my marriage just about a month ago, after almost 5 years of separation and being friendlier than when we were married. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do, and I still think about us being together, and  still dream about her almost every night... however, I know that the worst thing I could do is to attempt to work it out.
You need to sit down and have a very serious, very brutal look at yourself, and why it is you want him back. And I mean BRUTAL... don't sugar coat anything.
Figure out why you broke up, why you want him back, how you feel about him, how he feels about you, and were you better with or without him.
Put all of the good things on one sheet of paper,and the bad things on another. Then you will know what to do.
Hope It Helps

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3 posted 2003-03-31 12:22 PM


Been here and as Ringo says you really need to look at why you want him back. It may just be a comfort factor, the familiarity of him rather than love. We forget the things that drive us crazy for comfort sometimes..and even once you've found the reasons and do decide to get back together you should be sure he's done the same..but what do i know
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4 posted 2003-03-31 01:20 AM


Going back never worked for me, but I've known a couple of people who have been able to pull it off. Good luck, whatever you decide to do. Just stay away from the rose colored glasses, and be as honest with yourself as to why you split as you are with why you loved him in the first place.
Ya, right. As if logic and sense had anything to do with love. Even giving love to the 'wrong' person is still more satisfying than the emptiness of never giving love at all.

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