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I think im starting to hate my dad.
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Connel
since 2002-11-04
Posts 736Florida, USA |
My dad... No one can talk to him, if you do,.. He'll yell at ya for interupting him from his tv.. I feel sorry for my mom,.. Every other word out of his mouth is B-I-T-*-*.. But he never does hit her, thank god.. he is a little happier on the holidays... like on christmas.. but before christmas.. Man he is mad all the time.. Anyway.. The reason for me posting this is i want some help.. Im starting to hate him.. See... I pictuire my mom dieing and i start crying in my head.. Even though I know it isnt real.. But i do that with my dad... I Fell NOTHING... I hope I dont hate my own father.. But i lost all respect and care for him.. Sometimes he seems like a cool guy.. But then, CLICK. tv's on and cant be talked to.. My dad has his own piece of crap business that he says is good... But we all know it isnt.. We know he isnt making anything.. But we still have enough money to get by.. Anyway.. I want to know if i still care for my father. Thank you for reading. I wish to become a great poet some day, but it will only come in time. Til then, I shall write my poems, and wait. |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
I wish you would read this to your father. Or just LET him read it if that's too hard. I think you do indeed love your father. It sounds to me like it's his emotional absence that you hate. Try making the first move. Ask him how he's feeling. Tell him you love him. Give him a hug. He sounds like a troubled man. And? I'm not a counselor, so I might suggest that you seek some professional counseling. Life is too short my friend. sighs and hugs. You just broke my heart. |
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majnu
since 2002-10-13
Posts 1088SF Bay Area |
i don't know how old you are, or if you have siblings, but if you feel you need to get out then work hard in school, get a pt job save up some money, and leave. your independence may give your mother the impetus and confidence she needs to change your father or her situation. -majnu |
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Wind
since 2002-10-12
Posts 2981 |
I emailed you instead of writtinf it in here. font> "Sticks and stones will break my bones, But words will break my heart" [This message has been edited by Wind (11-14-2002 10:11 PM).] |
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Wind
since 2002-10-12
Posts 2981 |
I think you are about my age. I am thirteen. you seem around that area. "Sticks and stones will break my bones, |
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Connel
since 2002-11-04
Posts 736Florida, USA |
Holy crap.. are you really 13? im 12.. going on 13.. i cant belive that;. dude.. that kicks..  I wish to become a great poet some day, but it will only come in time. Til then, I shall write my poems, and wait. |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Chat with the Wind, a nice gal who is also very bright. I understand your feelings. you cannot change him, neither can your mom. But you sure can give a hug and a smile and then go do YOUR own thing. Sure might be nice if that TV blew up instead of him. |
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Wind
since 2002-10-12
Posts 2981 |
Thank you Midnitesun, that really made my day "Sticks and stones will break my bones, |
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Magnus
since 2001-10-10
Posts 14135South Carolina, USA |
You might entertain talking to your mother and possibly to your grandparents... Grown-ups can be difficult to understand at times... Often, the problem comes from something that they just can't cope very well with....It comes out as anger, angry or hurtful words, possibly silence or ignoring those that live with them.... Talk to someone that you can be honest with and can listen to...preferably someone with experience..... I too think you love your father. You are angry at him right now, and if I were to guess, I would say you are a little scared and obviously very concerned...confused and not sure what to do... Best advice is....don't do something stupid yourself....It will just add to it... |
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