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I think im starting to hate my dad.

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Connel
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0 posted 11-13-2002 09:12 PM       View Profile for Connel   Email Connel   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Connel

  My dad... No one can talk to him, if you do,.. He'll yell at ya for interupting him from his tv.. I feel sorry for my mom,.. Every other word out of his mouth is B-I-T-*-*.. But he never does hit her, thank god.. he is a little happier on the holidays... like on christmas.. but before christmas.. Man he is mad all the time.. Anyway.. The reason for me posting this is i want some help.. Im starting to hate him.. See... I pictuire my mom dieing and i start crying in my head.. Even though I know it isnt real.. But i do that with my dad... I Fell NOTHING... I hope I dont hate my own father.. But i lost all respect and care for him.. Sometimes he seems like a cool guy.. But then, CLICK. tv's on and cant be talked to..


My dad has his own piece of crap business that he says is good... But we all know it isnt.. We know he isnt making anything.. But we still have enough money to get by.. Anyway.. I want to know if i still care for my father.  Thank you for reading.

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1 posted 11-13-2002 09:38 PM       View Profile for serenity blaze   Email serenity blaze   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for serenity blaze

I wish you would read this to your father.

Or just LET him read it if that's too hard.

I think you do indeed love your father. It sounds to me like it's his emotional absence that you hate. Try making the first move.
Ask him how he's feeling. Tell him you love him. Give him a hug. He sounds like a troubled man.

And? I'm not a counselor, so I might suggest that you seek some professional counseling.
Life is too short my friend.

sighs and hugs.

You just broke my heart.
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2 posted 11-13-2002 09:43 PM       View Profile for majnu   Email majnu   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for majnu

i don't know how old you are, or if you have siblings, but if you feel you need to get out then work hard in school, get a pt job save up some money, and leave.

your independence may give your mother the impetus and confidence she needs to change your father or her situation.

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3 posted 11-14-2002 09:27 PM       View Profile for Wind   Email Wind   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Wind

I emailed you instead of writtinf it in here. font>

"Sticks and stones will break my bones,
But words will break my heart"

[This message has been edited by Wind (11-14-2002 10:11 PM).]

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4 posted 11-14-2002 09:33 PM       View Profile for Wind   Email Wind   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Wind

I think you are about my age. I am thirteen. you seem around that area.

"Sticks and stones will break my bones,
But words will break my heart"

Connel
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5 posted 11-15-2002 11:34 AM       View Profile for Connel   Email Connel   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Connel

Holy crap.. are you really 13? im 12.. going on 13.. i cant belive that;. dude.. that kicks..

I wish to become a great poet some day, but it will only come in time. Til then, I shall write my poems, and wait.

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Chat with the Wind, a nice gal who is also very bright.
I understand your feelings. you cannot change him, neither can your mom. But you sure can give a hug and a smile and then go do YOUR own thing.
Sure might be nice if that TV blew up instead of him.
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7 posted 11-16-2002 04:32 PM       View Profile for Wind   Email Wind   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Wind

Thank you Midnitesun, that really made my day

"Sticks and stones will break my bones,
But words will break my heart"

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8 posted 11-17-2002 07:58 PM       View Profile for Magnus   Email Magnus   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Magnus

You might entertain talking to your mother and possibly to your grandparents...

Grown-ups can be difficult to understand at
times...  Often,  the problem comes from
something that they just can't cope very
well with....It comes out as anger,  angry
or hurtful words,  possibly silence or
ignoring those that live with them....

Talk to someone that you can be honest with
and can listen to...preferably someone with
experience.....

I too think you love your father.  You are
angry at him right now,  and if I were to
guess,  I would say you are a little scared
and obviously very concerned...confused and
not sure what to do...

Best advice is....don't do something stupid
yourself....It will just add to it...
 
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