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PanDol
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0 posted 04-05-2001 05:00 PM       View Profile for PanDol   Email PanDol   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for PanDol

Have you ever been so In Love with some one that:

it actually hurt?

you feel like you're going to burst open at any moment?

your feelings run so deep that you can't even put into words how you feel?

~PanDol

Marina
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1 posted 04-05-2001 05:25 PM       View Profile for Marina   Email Marina   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Marina

YEP!!!!   I was so in love with someone that I would have done anything for him.  I was even stupid enough to let him change my mind about certain family members and sitautions with others.  Unfortunitely sometimes to love someone that much usaully means that there is a MAGOR heartache on the way.  At least I found that.  I finally woke up morning literally, and called to say don't be home when I get there because I am packing and leaving.  To love this deeply I have found, can mean you are clinging to the wrong kind of love that may not be love at all.

Of course, I do believe that there are some couples that can make this kind of love a pure love that lasts forever, but I have unfortunitly never experienced it.

Marina
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2 posted 04-05-2001 07:50 PM       View Profile for Just A Woman   Email Just A Woman   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Just A Woman

Unfortunately, that's the only way I do it.  



"I can't remember if I'm the good twin or the evil one."

JLR
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3 posted 04-05-2001 08:11 PM       View Profile for JLR   Email JLR   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for JLR

I don't think I've ever responded to anything in this forum before...but this one I couldn't pass up.  An emphatic YES!  A love so intense that when it ended it hurt not only the heart but the mind, body and soul.  A physical ache so consuming that the only relief was to dull it, by either mindless activity or chemical intervention.  Sleep was not an option.   For me it manifests itself in another way also that I wonder if anyone else has experienced.  When love ends and then...music hurts.  I find it very difficult to listen to music.  Not just those few songs that are a particular reminder but all music.  Your last question, I'm not sure about.  I write a lot about one particular experience with this, though I don't know that I have ever REALLY gotten to the depth of the feeling.  I think I have probably touched on it with a line or two but not to the extent that you suggest.
Thanks for a really good question about my favorite subject...painful or not!

Speak when you are angry--and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret...Laurence J. Peter

Sven
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4 posted 04-05-2001 08:39 PM       View Profile for Sven   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Sven

To paraphrase Just a Woman. . . is there any other way??  

Yes. . . I have. . . so much so that I've been used. . . but I never knew it. . . I just fell totally for this person. . . and my feelings and my heart were totally walked on. . . and when it ended, the fall down was hard. . . very hard. . .

Like JLR, it hurt. . . it even hurt to listen to those songs. . . but I went on. . . I healed. . . it took a long time. . . but, I tried again. . . and again. . . never giving up. . . I guess that you could say that I was a glutton for punishment. . . but I knew that the love that I wanted was out there. . . and I know that it still is. . .

So, out of stubbroness (well, that or stupidity, one of the two!!  LOL   ) I keep trying. . . and I know that I'll find it. . . it's not just a dream. . . and when I do. . . you'll know it. . .

Great question PanDol. . .

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To the world, you may only be one person. But to one person, you may be the world.

LoveBug
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5 posted 04-05-2001 09:38 PM       View Profile for LoveBug   Email LoveBug   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for LoveBug

I'm loving like that right now, actually. Allow me to ask another question: have you ever loved somebody enough to let them go with another person with no hard feelings, because you'd rather see them happy, even if it isn't with you? If you've ever read my poetry, you'll know my answer!

"Men judge generally more by the eye than by the hand, for everyone can see and few can feel."-Machiavelli

JLR
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6 posted 04-05-2001 10:43 PM       View Profile for JLR   Email JLR   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for JLR

Lovebug---how about letting someone go to be with someone else...not so much because it makes them happy but because it is the decision he/she has made and is probably the 'right' thing to do...all things considered?
Would that count...if so yes I have.  Nonetheless--painful.  I will have to be pulling up some of your poetry...sorry to say, I don't believe I've read any...though, I saw the pic of your car and I love it!

Speak when you are angry--and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret...Laurence J. Peter

kitkat
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7 posted 04-06-2001 09:06 AM       View Profile for kitkat   Email kitkat   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for kitkat

Let me reply yes, yes and yes.
I have only loved 3 men in my life. #1 was my husband who I was married to for 11 years. Now divorced for 12 that hurt.
#2 Meet a man 7 years ago.  He was really  very kind to me and a good person.We were together for 6 yrs.Fell in love with the person I thought he was. Turned out to be not what I thought. I left him. I hurt him which in turn hurt me.
I met a man almost a year ago. We are together right now. I Love him so much I think at times I am going to explode. The way he shows his love for me just blows my mind. When I first moved to be with him the whole town said thank you to me. That my man had and still does declare his love for me to everyone he meets. His friends told me they have never seen him so happy. At times I am at a loss for words to tell him how I feel. We have no secrets. We share everything. It is wonderful. I do not think my feet will ever touch the ground again!!!! True Love At last *sighs*

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You got to get up every morning with a smile on your face
and show the world all the love in your heart
Then people are gonna treat

Acies
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8 posted 04-06-2001 09:18 AM       View Profile for Acies   Email Acies   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Acies

That just describes my last relationship all to well  

"So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this give life to thee." W.S.

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9 posted 04-06-2001 12:50 PM       View Profile for Dopey Dope   Email Dopey Dope   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Dopey Dope

Yes....and I got burned....first gf....3yrs....dumped....TWICE....cheated on..ONCE.....yep yep and I stayed....and I'm still with her....but we're not with any titles....we just date. Am I a fool? Of course.....Do I readily admit to this? I just did... Can I fix it? No...but I'm leaving for college in 4 months and I plan on that being my escape....
I'm just too attached to leave it completely for now.
I suck.....really bad....
Severn
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10 posted 04-06-2001 07:08 PM       View Profile for Severn   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Severn

Hell yes.

Several times lol.

All obscurity starts with a danger:
Your dangers are many. I
Cannot look much but your form suffers
Some strange injury
Sylvia Plath

Dark Angel
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11 posted 04-06-2001 07:09 PM       View Profile for Dark Angel   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Dark Angel

OH YES Yes yes

so bad I can't breath  

Love which is not always springing is always dying.

Kalil Gibran

Jamie
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12 posted 04-06-2001 10:28 PM       View Profile for Jamie   Email Jamie   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit Jamie's Home Page   View IP for Jamie

Do Baptists pass the offering plate?

There is society where none intrudes, by the deep sea, and music in its roar.
byron

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13 posted 04-06-2001 11:42 PM       View Profile for Temptress   Email Temptress   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Temptress

YES!!    

still d-i-s-c-o-n-n-e-c-t-e-d
I am bound by this, you see...to become Night's sole mistress, and I am jealous in my endeavours for his attention.

Nan
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14 posted 04-07-2001 07:40 AM       View Profile for Nan   Email Nan   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit Nan's Home Page   View IP for Nan

Love knows no logic...
AngelShell
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15 posted 04-07-2001 08:07 AM       View Profile for AngelShell   Email AngelShell   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for AngelShell

Yep, I have to go with Dopey here.  Love bites.
First b/f together for 2 years, dumped me for another chick but didn't TELL me for 3 months, then blamed me for it, THEN begged me to give him a reason to break of the engagement (with the girl he dumped me for) by telling me that he'd give it all up if I just told him that I loved him one more time.
Second b/f together for a year, promised that he'd never do what my first had done, then promtly dumped me for some other chick.
It's been down hill since then.
I fall for the wrong guys at the worst time.  I mean the lastest one was my friends on and off b/f...word of advice...NEVER GO THERE!!!
The one before that was a friends brother.
I can't seem to win.  There's this guy that I love to bits right now (purely in a platonic relationship however) I mean, I've never loved someone like I love him and for the last 2 months I haven't heard from him except for the vacant replies here.
AHHH!  I HATE MY LOVE LIFE!!!!!
Jesse Jaymz
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16 posted 04-11-2001 09:45 PM       View Profile for Jesse Jaymz   Email Jesse Jaymz   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit Jesse Jaymz's Home Page   View IP for Jesse Jaymz

i am hurting like that now.  so much pain deep down inside.  i am willing to give this girl everytring i can.  she says i say the exact same things her ex says.  almost to the word.  he dumped her.  hard.  and i did nothing but love her.  yet she loves him and not me.  *sigh*  i hate my love liife too  *is staarting to tear up*  trust me pandol i know how you feel  *hugs*
love ya
jesse

All I feel is hurt and sorrow, praying it'll all be gone by tomorrow but as tomorrow rolls around, another tear hits the ground.

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17 posted 04-12-2001 07:01 PM       View Profile for catalinamoon   Email catalinamoon   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit catalinamoon's Home Page   View IP for catalinamoon

yes, yes, and it is still that way..I think what Sven said sums up my answer well, I always love unwisely and too well. And get hurt, deperately. But still I would never give up having had the experience of loving them.
Sandra
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18 posted 04-13-2001 07:21 PM       View Profile for Honeybee   Email Honeybee   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Honeybee


I am dealing with that right now   and this is the only time that I have felt this deeply, and yes, you can still be in love with someone even when he has found another, I just want him to be happy even though I'm still miserable  
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19 posted 04-13-2001 09:57 PM       View Profile for Sven   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Sven

Melissa. . . I found that I wanted them to be happy too. . . I just wanted them to be happy with me. . .  

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To the world, you may only be one person. But to one person, you may be the world.

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20 posted 04-13-2001 10:38 PM       View Profile for Poet deVine   Email Poet deVine   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Poet deVine

I used to, until I learned not to love.
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21 posted 04-13-2001 10:53 PM       View Profile for LoveBug   Email LoveBug   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for LoveBug

Oh come on Sharon!
You know you love me!!!!!

                  
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22 posted 04-16-2001 03:02 PM       View Profile for Fading Away   Email Fading Away   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Fading Away

LoveBug - Great question.  I haven't ever been in that situation before, but I have thought about it.  I thought about why I am keeping this person unhappy.  The only way that person would be happy is if I let him go and be with who he really wanted to be with.  It's almost like you're sacrificing your own emotions and your own heart for that significant other to be happy.
I wish that situation never happens to me.  If you're going through it then I'm sorry and all I can offer are my *Hugs*

--Marie

subconsciously, i think i can eat so much to make my stomach hurt, instead of my heart.

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23 posted 09-30-2002 06:44 PM       View Profile for bsquirrel   Email bsquirrel   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for bsquirrel

Yes.
Love can destroy you.
And, reshape you
into someone
who won't be destroyed --
just changed.
Sinful_Steph
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24 posted 10-04-2002 04:17 PM       View Profile for Sinful_Steph   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Sinful_Steph

I can relate to alot of you.  My first love, I was with for 5 years, he constantly cheated and lied, but I stuck around.  Now I'm in another situation.  I'm in love with someone who I believe is in love with another.  He sends all these mixed signals and I'm not sure what to believe.  There is nothing I wouldn't do for him and he knows this.  I think at times he even takes advantage of this fact.  BUT, unfortunately, I can't muster the courage to leave.  When and if he decides to walk out of my life, I can guarentee, many nights will be spent curled up with tears rolling down my face, slow music in the distance asking "why?".  

I often say I'd want him to be happy even if it meant pain for me....but truth be told...I don't think I could handle it.  Only time will tell.

Great question!!!!

"Love me little, Love me long, Is the burden of my song" - Robert Herrick

 
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