Member Rara Avis
I have this clipping on my fridge and I think it's worth repeating.
You want to know what real love is?
It's not what most people think it is.
Real love is about decision and commitment, it's not a feeling.
That's what's wrong with people today, why there are so many failed relationships, why so many potential relationships never get off the ground.
Everyone is standing around waiting for "the feeling." They want to feel that spine-tingling rush of infatuation. Yes, that's right-that feeling is infatuation.
I agree with most here, it might be that you try to hard. I know where you're at though, about the buddy thing. I too have always been like that. I can talk so much easier to the guys, than I ever could the girls. I always had more men friends than women.
You don't need to change who you are for anyone. So don't forget that Be who you are, and someone will love you just for that.
Never know, maybe one of those buddies really does like you in a different way, and just isn't saying anything. It's happened to me.
Best of luck to ya!