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What if you hurt someone you love unintentionally?

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X Angel
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0 posted 09-24-2000 04:18 PM       View Profile for X Angel   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for X Angel

I actually have done this more than once....
but my latest snafu involves a dear friend that I hurt very much. I never ever meant to. And I am absolutely heartbroken that I messed up. What to do?
I have sincerely apologized....sworn to never do it again (which I meant with all my heart). Is there anything else I can do? And how do I live with the fact that I may remain unforgiven for this? My chest feels like someone whacked me with a ton of bricks, I feel just horrible about this. I want so much to make things right. I just don't know what else to do now? Will time heal this? Can it? Thanks for letting me vent, just typing this helped.
*sigh*

:`(

~Heather

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1 posted 09-24-2000 11:20 PM       View Profile for Poet deVine   Email Poet deVine   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Poet deVine

Heather I know what you are feeling. It will be better. When we hurt someone unintentionally, we can only pray they will forgive us. But YOU have to forgive yourself too. And learn from it. That's important.
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2 posted 09-25-2000 07:10 AM       View Profile for Nan   Email Nan   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems   Click to visit Nan's Home Page   View IP for Nan

Heather - You have such a golden heart, how could anyone ever NOT forgive you for something you never meant to do???..
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3 posted 09-25-2000 08:06 PM       View Profile for Sven   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Sven

Heather,
        there's not much else that you can do. . . all you can do is move on, if your friendship is strong enough. . . it will survive this, and you and your friend may grow closer because of it. . .

to you my friend. . .

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That which gives light must endure burning
--Victor Frankl

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4 posted 09-25-2000 08:13 PM       View Profile for Denise   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Denise

You've done all you can do, Heather, that's the most important thing...I suppose this type of pain is the same as any other type...it will lessen in time. True friendships can only grow stronger through the rough times. Just give it some time. In the meantime......HUGS

Denise
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5 posted 09-26-2000 03:29 PM       View Profile for Jenn Cirrincione   Email Jenn Cirrincione   Edit/Delete Message      Find Poems  View IP for Jenn Cirrincione

Oh haven't we all been there? I know I have... I put my foot in my mouth more times than I know how to count!! I hope it gets better... if you've already apologized and tried to rectify by talking it out, you've done all you can. Just be patient... Everything happens for a reason, believe it or not!
Jenn


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