Ever come home from a long day's work and nobody bothers to acknowledge you're there? Ever bake something (cookies, cake, etc), leave it out for the family and when you come home, they have disappeared and no one says thank you, or anything?
Yeah. This is a pity party isn't it?
Yesterday is ash, tomorrow is smoke; only today does the fire burn.
"Everything is your own damn fault, if you are any good." E. Hemmingway