State of constant confusion!
First, let me say that I know this pain first hand.....and I know it hurts
Ever heard the the old addage "If you love someone you gotta let 'em go?"
Well, if this person that you speak of is moving on to be happy(ier) then I say if you really love them you gotta let 'em go without regret. Only the truest love can be shown this way. Cause if you really love this person , you love them enough to let them do whatever makes them happy. Even if it means that you aren't in there life.
Believe me, I have seen both sides of this coin and when you're the one letting go it is very hard, but it isn't any easier (from my experience) to be the one that is let go. Cause they will see how much you love them and know how much you are hurting.
If you ever need someone to talk to I am only an email or icq away
Take care of yourself!
[This message has been edited by Jeffrey Carter (edited 08-08-2000).]