How can't I break my heart?

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Maverick Wolf
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since 1999-11-13

Posts 94
Scandia, MN

0 posted 2000-08-01 09:09 AM

What do you do when you know that the person that you care about more than anything in the whole world is leaving you and most likely will never have that same relationship with again?

RainbowGirl
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since 1999-07-31

Posts 3023
United Kingdom

1 posted 2000-08-02 04:19 PM

Well sweetheart, it would depend whether there was anything I could do to change their mind and what their reasons for leaving were and if there was absolutely nothing I could do to change their minds then I would be sad but I guess if someone is leaving you (it hurts, I know) then the love isn't very well balanced...but so much depends on all the different reasons and sometimes you're actually better off...

Either way, I wish you some sunshine and I hope you resolve it..

HUGS

"If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost;
that is where they should be.
Now put the foundations under them."

Dawn Eclipse
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since 2000-01-31

Posts 637
The Horsehead Nebula

2 posted 2000-08-07 03:43 PM

hmm... I don't exactly know what to tell you about that... I know a lot of people that are going through this at the moment.. mostly because of Highschool graduation. One thing I can tell you though, is that if this person cares that much about you in return, the relationship will survive the distance between the two of you. I hope with all my heart that it works out for the best for you.

Best wishes

"The universe is full of magical things patiently waiting for our wits to grow sharper."
Eden Phillpotts
*Cassandra Roseen*

Jeffrey Carter

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since 2000-04-08

Posts 2367
State of constant confusion!

3 posted 2000-08-08 03:46 AM

First, let me say that I know this pain first hand.....and I know it hurts

Ever heard the the old addage "If you love someone you gotta let 'em go?"

Well, if this person that you speak of is moving on to be happy(ier) then I say if you really love them you gotta let 'em go without regret. Only the truest love can be shown this way. Cause if you really love this person , you love them enough to let them do whatever makes them happy. Even if it means that you aren't in there life.

Believe me, I have seen both sides of this coin and when you're the one letting go it is very hard, but it isn't any easier (from my experience) to be the one that is let go. Cause they will see how much you love them and know how much you are hurting.

If you ever need someone to talk to I am only an email or icq away

Take care of yourself!

[This message has been edited by Jeffrey Carter (edited 08-08-2000).]

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