Christopher--if those connections never occurred, i think i would die of lonliness.
But the answers to your questions are yeses,
i think. Yes it's a good idea to approach
that person--it's the only way to find out.
And yes, the wandering fantasies conjured (that's a beautiful phrase, by the way) are always better. We control our fantasies--
people in real life are a little less flexible. And yes, of course, you're taking
a chance--either way. But GO FOR IT! How else will you ever know? Let me know how it
turns out--like everybody else here, i am a