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Spartacus
Junior Member

since 1999-09-27

Posts 13

0 posted 2000-02-29 06:56 PM

so....here I am, the big college freshman. Those of you who've been through this...did you ever have those 'wish I had's ? there is a major one that I've been going through ever since the end of high school. Let me give you the quick run down...
I'm a drummer...always have been, I'm sure I will always be...and there is this girl named Amanda that I graduated with and have been friends with since about the 1st grade, I believe. Well anyway..Amanda and I are great friends, we talk almost everyday. Last year (my senior year) she started dating this guy...which supposedly meant nothing to me...or so I thought mwahahaha.

Anyway, it bothered me a little bit, and I knew why, but what right did I have to say something to her, since I was dating someone also. She's been with this guy ever since...I, on the other hand, am single and hating it. But here's the thing, I know I love her...I've told her I love her...she's told me that if she wasn't with this guy...that she is sure she'd be with me.. She's not playing me or anything, she's seriously not like that, but I really do care about her. And when she askes me for advice concerning her boyfriend, I can't help but be biased and try to be pessimistic. I guess I should have moved faster...and now I have to wait...I know, I know...trust me, I know better than to try to break her up with her fellow

I'm a better person than that *sticks nose in air* Just wondering if anyone else has been in this predicament.

Amor Vincit Omnia:
Love Conquers All

Maya the Brokenhearted
Member

since 2000-02-13

Posts 66

1 posted 2000-02-29 07:20 PM

I too love someone I'm really not *allowed* to love and it's messin with my head.
*sigh*
I feel for you truly!
~Maya

Mistikman
Senior Member

since 2000-01-10

Posts 682
San Jose, CA, USA

2 posted 2000-02-29 07:49 PM

Well, not in quite that predicament, but for me I love a girl who doesnt want me to. I have agreed to not pine for her affection, but I still love her and cant seem to do anything about it. If I were you, and she asked me for advice concerning her boyfriend, I would tell her the truth, that I could not possibly give her proper advice considering the circumstances, and would hate to be responsible for breaking her up if I tried.

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