St. Paul, MN
It certainly is hard, and I speak from experience.. Even thought it may seem unfair and painful, the pain will eventually fade. Try to think of as little as possible, remember the good times, sure. Feel the pain of the bad, how could you not? But eventually you'll understand why it happened, or at least I did. Don't be unfair to the new g/f, don't be unfair to yourself. Strength to you.
Also, I think this post will be better recognized in Feelings, so I will be moving this post there contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org if there are any problems.
A writer's soul is on paper etched.
In flames I shall not be consumed, but reborn. --
[This message has been edited by Dusk Treader (edited 02-25-2000).]