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destiny502
Member

since 1999-11-23

Posts 57
OH

0 posted 1999-11-23 09:34 PM

About 2 weeks ago, i got in trouble at home. It wasnt anything bad, but i got grounded until my birthday which is 2 months away. I currently have a steady relationship. We havent been together for too long, but that doesnt matter. My boyfriend told me he was willing to wait for as long as it takes, and that he loves me, and wants us to be together forever. He got my initials tattooed on his arm despite what everyone said about it. We go to different schools, and i cant call him. He has access to e-mail, but he never gets on the computer to check it, or to write me. I don't know whether or not he really even cares that we never see each other. I will never know if he cheats on me. I want to believe all that he says, but it seems impossible for a teenage guy to wait for 2 months and not see or talk to his girlfriend, without something happening. Maybe i'm wrong. I don't know what to do. So maybe if you guys could give me some advice, it might help me out. It's not that big of a deal, compared to some problems out there, but its just really bothering. I know i have my whole life ahead of me. I just joined this whole thing cause it looked neat how people can give advice and help each other out and i thought i could hear what i've need to hear all along. thanks

WhtDove
Member Rara Avis

since 1999-07-22

Posts 9245
Illinois

1 posted 1999-11-23 09:52 PM

Destiny I don't quite know what to say! A new relationship and grounded eh? That's a sticky situation! All I can really say is that I hope he is true to his word and will wait on you! Is there a mutual friend you have that could tell him to check his email?

I will tell you this though. It seems as though you have already thought about this quite a bit. I don't want to say he won't wait, but I guess the test of time will tell.

So hang in their and be good and don't get grounded anymore. hehe, like I never was!
Just be careful, as you are young and others will come along, don't attach to the first one. I know we're eager to believe what they say, and should until they show otherwise. Just be careful that's all.

Sorry I guess that wasn't much help! Good Luck to ya!

Poet deVine

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Member Seraphic

since 1999-05-26

Posts 22612
Hurricane Alley

2 posted 1999-11-23 10:05 PM

Welcome to the family! I hope you find someone here to relate to and find some new friends. Hang in there right now and give yourself and your boyfriend some time!

Marilyn
Member Elite

since 1999-09-26

Posts 2621
Ontario, Canada

3 posted 1999-11-24 03:15 PM

I have to ditto everyone else. Time is what this situation needs. It doesn't help you with the way that you are feeling right now. We all think we are in such a rush these days. Time is what shows things to be real of false. We all need to learn the lesson. Welcome to Passions and I hope to see you in teen.

merlynh
Member

since 1999-09-26

Posts 411
deer park, wa

4 posted 1999-11-24 05:19 PM

I don't know about how everyone else feels or thinks inside themselves. But I can tell you the name of my first girl friend when I was seven, and up to my third marrage. If a person really likes somone and really cares, they remember and keep a special place in their heart for them. At least it's a truth for me. I hope this helps.

From someone who tries to care and love as God does.

myslinky
Junior Member

since 1999-11-25

Posts 27

5 posted 1999-11-25 12:34 PM

This has happened to me before (believe it or not). The only difference is that I went on a one month vacation I wasn´t grounded. It turns out that Mr. "I´ll love you forever" didn´t keep his word. When I came back from my vacation I found out that he was with another girl. Well that was o.k by me because now I´m with a guy who really cares about me. We´ve been together for 6 happy months. The only advice I can give you is to wait. If he truly cares about you he´ll be there after the 2 months are up. If he´s not there don´t sweat it you are young and you´ll find another guy who will truly care.
As in for now be good and don´t get grounded anymore!

[This message has been edited by myslinky (edited 11-26-1999).]

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