I have this problem that I need advise with. There is this girl who I a have been friends with for about 1 1/2 years and "close" friends for 1/2 a year. I have grown to love her more than a friend and so has she. Let her be known as girl A. There is this other girl who I have been best friends with for about six years. Let her be known as girl B. Here is where the problem comes in. Girl B over heard girl A speaking to her friend in the bathroom saying that I was just a little play thing and that I ment nothing to her. I confronted girl A and she denied everything while girl B swore to her words. Girl B is rumored to have a bit of a crush on me and is rumored to have lied to seperate girl A and I.
WHO SHOULD I BELIEVE?
The Hague, The Netherlands
I dont know if this will help but i had a sorta similar situation - i ha to choose between a best friend and the guy i loved - everyone said i should believe my best friend "guys come and go...ect" i followed my heart and believed the guy - the best friend had a history of lying to promote her interests in the past - the guy had never lied to me before - that was about four years ago and i have no regrets - when i chose the guy i tried to remain friends w/ the best friend but she showed her true colors in the end - i am no longer w/ the guy but i have no regrets i still love him and trust him and i am grateful i followed my instincts instead of others advice - follow your heart and all will work out- i hope this helped and was not too confusing
you already know what you are going to do. you ask for advice so that you need not feel remorse or solely responsible for the actions you are going to take anyway. do what you are going to do, you do not need to be justified
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