Member Rara Avis
I am going to take a different standpoint on this from my normal way. I am not a very religious person, and I do hope talk of it doesn't upset anyone. Though this is an adult place where we can surely respect each other's views as adults.
I am from Mississippi, and have been raised mostly in pentecostal churches as a small child. In the years before my teenage years, it was Assembly of God. In my older teenage years I attended Baptist churches. Through all of these it has always been taught to me that lusting after or wanting someone else (even by just mere thought) while married was indeed infidelity. Though I admit I don't attend church often anymore, I still hold these teachings true. I believe in them, but cannot say I haven't made the same mistakes. In short, I suppose I am saying, yes. I believe it is infidelity when internet "love" happens during a marriage. As for right or wrong, those are left up to the individual to decide. There are many circumstances that lead to infidelity, and EVERYTHING happens for a deeper purpose. Thanks for listening, all, and good day.