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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia 
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It's always difficult to deal with petty mindsets such as those who dole out assistance and allotments to the temporarily needy. For some will act as if it all came directly from their own pockets, and go out of their way to make you crawl.... cringe... beg...... And then there are some who simply ask, "How can we help you?" and do so in such a way, that the receiver walks away still holding onto self-esteem and dignity. Which one are you? Which one do you wish to go before in the time of need? ...but for the sake of... |
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Gentle Spirit Member Patricius
since 2000-10-09
Posts 13989 |
And then there are some who simply ask, "How can we help you?" and do so in such a way, that the receiver walks away still holding onto self-esteem and dignity. shaking my head and agreeing with you Kacy, everyone needs to be treated with dignity cuz as the saying goes you don't know where I've been unless you've walked in my shoes... applauding you for always saying what your heart feels lady... and such a lovely heart you have. You make me proud to know you.  and I apologize dear gal for not being here more to read your wondeful words. I refuse to make plans past this moment in time.... |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
 hugs to you sweetie, and hoping your hands are feeling better. We all understand and accept that you may not be able to reply as you would like to.  But I am always eternally grateful for your kindness, for your words in reply to my heartbeat. |
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nakdthoughts Member Laureate
since 2000-10-29
Posts 19200Between the Lines |
there are times in the past few years, even if needing help I didn't ask for it because of the reaction I would get...in fact I was taking a class on self esteem and the others in the class thought I didn't belong there and pretty much ignored me...just because I didn't look "downtrodden"...I actually left that class without gaining what I was there for. but I understand what you mean~~ maybe you have to be in need at some point in your life to know the feeling of wanting to have your "dignity"  M |
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Gentle Spirit Member Patricius
since 2000-10-09
Posts 13989 |
well, good enough to be here to bug ya'll tonight.... but... I promise to go away again soon! lmao!! Just such a pleasure to have the pain alleviated enough to enjoy a little time here.... and back at ya!! |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Maureen, I have this idea... maybe everyone who wants a job in these 'help-you-agencies' ... should be forced to sit on the other side of that desk once a month would be about right don't you think, to keep them in line? Gentle Spirit,  I am so lucky to have another reply from you! |
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