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NightShadow
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0 posted 2001-09-28 09:46 AM


Im so sad. Even though all this is still going on in New York.. and Im scared for war.. I found out that one of my families good friends died Monday. Yes, I just found out.. and yes, I am crying. I don't even know what to say, or if anyone will respond to this.. but I just needed to vent to people who will at least listen, and maybe read this post.. since my husband doesnt always care. I live so far away from my family..(15 hours).. that I can't talk to them, really about it.. my mom thought she told me monday, and she just told me this morning.. *sniffles* Oh, this is just a petty post.. if no one replies.. I understand.. I just really needed to type this out.. maybe a new poem will come about of how i am feeling..

A Life without Love, is no life at all...

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1 posted 2001-09-28 11:58 AM


This is not in any way a petty post...everyone's scared of war hun...im about 20 min from the city and im feeling the impact as well as everyone is from across the country...its a hard time...im sorry to hear about the loss..::hugs:: we're here for you
Sunshine
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2 posted 2001-09-28 12:14 PM



A loss at any time, over a person, or a pet, a bird, a relationship....it hurts.  We can't pretend they don't.  I am very glad you are able to cry, the last few weeks has been building in all bodies, and then we get hit with something personal, and it all comes home...

It's never petty to say "I loved this person, and now they are gone..."

More than ever, we understand...

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3 posted 2001-09-28 12:55 PM


This "family" is no farther away than your PC.  Hang in there and vent to us anytime you feel the need
NightShadow
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4 posted 2001-09-28 04:44 PM


Thank you all very much.. It still boggles my mind.. that he's gone.. but he did have cancer.. so I knew inevitably, it would come.. but still... Thank you all.. *hugs for all*

A Life without Love, is no life at all...

doreen peri
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5 posted 2001-09-28 06:21 PM


this is NOT a petty post..... my sincere sympathies to you and your family and to the family of your friend who's life was lost

prayers are sent your way

... and just know, you are not alone in your grieving.... we are all struggling through a very difficult time...

... but i just know that beauty and Love will come out of this in a very powerful way....

let yourself grieve and know there is a wonderful strength inside of you which will endure this most taxing, confusing, and sorrow filled  time....

rwood
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6 posted 2001-09-28 11:00 PM


It's never petty to share your heart. I'm so sorry for your pain. Thank you for allowing us to know when you're suffering. It helps to know we're not the only ones having a tough time....and allows us to practice the art of healing through that sharing. Your tears are sincere, and I sincerely hope for you a brighter week end. God Bless..and many Hugs.

Sincerely,
Regina

Dee
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7 posted 2001-09-29 03:52 AM


Oh never think your feelings are petty. They are important, can be a lifeline, don't dismiss them so quickly. Let them out and you will feel so much better.
If you are sad, afraid or alone, we are here for you. Just talk and we will listen.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

Dee

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NightShadow
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8 posted 2001-09-29 10:01 AM


Thank you all again, very much.  I talked to my mom more about it, and we decided that he was way better off.. since I had no idea he was suffering so much.. as he was.. I found out he was even put in a Nursing home since his neice couldn't help him out anymore.. *soft sighs* At least he is in a better place.. Thank you all again.. You really have helped to make me feel better..

A Life without Love, is no life at all...

RSEvans
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9 posted 2001-09-29 12:15 PM


Life is much to short to hide feelings.  Don't you think?  There are many who love you and feel your hurting and want to help with all their heart.  Reach out to them and let them take consolation in being able to be there for you.
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10 posted 2001-09-30 02:52 PM


Hi, my sympathies to you, it is not a bit petty to feel sad about a personal loss. Hugs  
Sandra

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11 posted 2001-10-03 03:13 PM


there is nothing petty about grief, I know, i just buried someone I love. My prayers and thoughts are with you and God speed. Take care and someday, perhaps you will return to us. Peace....

Kathleen
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"Others can stop you temporarily, but only you can do it permanently."

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12 posted 2001-10-07 10:24 AM


(((warm hugs))) my sincere sympathy goes out to you and your family, and remember grief is never ever a petty thing. It's hard to have your family so far away, especially when you have to deal with pain and sorrow. but hey between this wall, we do have a circle with lot of warm and compassionate people who cares for each other.

Charisma

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13 posted 2001-10-09 10:04 PM


Listen to these guys, cos writing down your feelings isnt petty, I'm sorry for your loss and if you need to vent feel free to do it here if u want.

I breathe the dust, the dust is me.


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